| Originally Posted by tvt |
So Joe's BM is planning on proposing to his GF right at the begining of our wedding trip.
Is this weird?
Part of me says it is, part of me says don't let it bother me.
This is difficult - you are asking him to attend a destination wedding where he will have to pay $$$ to be there - he probably thinks why not do my proposal at this 'fairytale' location
This is your wedding and you deserve the spotlight. I would not be impressed either.
What does your FI say? Did your BM ask you or just tell you?
This is a hard one - I can see both sides, but this is your wedding and an engagement is a huge thing.
I would ask my FI to have your BM refrain - at least till the end of the week for a compromise
Keep us posted