| Originally Posted by ~Debra~ |
Originally we decided on no more than 40 people. But we are up to 60 now and hopefully (fingers crossed) we don't go over that number.
I think choosing AI or non AI is completely a personal choice. For our group, AI was the best way to go. We are a bunch of party'ers so I didn't want my guests to have to be worrying about their bank accounts while on vacation if they want to drink and eat and do certain water activities. I also like the idea of us all staying together because this will be the first time we've (his friends, my friends, his family, my family) all been able to hang out in the same spot since everyone is all over the country.
We don't have that many partiers coming. I mean we all like to have a good time but we only have like 3 big drinkers coming to the wedding. One is a recovered alcoholic so I don't want her to be exposed to all that alcohol and open doors to her haunting past. And the other two I just don't want drinking to the point of drunkenness like they often times do. So that I don't mind, but it would be nice to have an unlimited amount of food for our family and friends. We're a family based around the kitchen so I really wish we could have that and water activities we can all do as a group because his family has never really met my family. Grrr. Ideas?!