What to do... chop or not to chop??

[roo66]

This is a tuff one but i do like the hair you have with your friend holding your foot.Id be worried that you get it cut and then he says oh i liked it blonde and long.Then you might go bridezilla on him.I say keep it long blonde and then surprize him afterwards

[Jenn3878]

I say go with the style that makes you happy You will be beautiful either way!

[JoLo908]

In all seriousness, they both look awesome... I think it is just a personal preference. Maybe wait a little bit and see what feels best. I give you so much credit, I want to chop my hair off all of the time!!!

[KLC77]

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Originally Posted by lmg970 I am torn, they both look great, but I say close your eyes and picture yourself in your wedding dress at the beach and consider how you are wearing your hair in that image and that is what you should go with.

I agree with this. Close your eyes and picture your day~ what do you see? Or picture what your wedding pictures will look like, which you do you want to see in them? I think that both styles and colors look great, but if I was forced to choose I lean more toward the way it is now (the blonde). Let us know what you decide!

[jajajaja]

So I think you should do what I did- chop it off and die it dark AFTER the wedding. Seriously, after the wedding it's like "now what?" At least with a new haircut you will have something to feel refreshed and excited about- not that being married is chop liver but you know what I mean?

 

I vote stay as is- long and blonde.

[2bebridejamaica]

HAHAHAHA Thanks everyone for the responses!! I am still torn because I always change my hair and color all the time. I get someone in my chair for a "makeover" and then next thing you know it's me getting the makeover.

 

I just can't decide on what I want to do. He loves it both ways and I know he knows I am itching to do something different.

 

Pro's of dark/short... quick and easy to do and I look tann -er than I really am. Blonde/long... endless possbilities but I looked comepletly washed out without makeup.

 

OOOOOOOOOOOoo the decisions!!

[jajajaja]

How about a color change yet keep the length? It's a nice compromise and you don't have to give up all the updo's you have probably been saving and eyeballing for months.

[kevsgirl]

My favorite is of you at the bar. The naturally curly and nice platinum-y blonde is gorgeous on you.

I also like the short dark look. Not so much a fan of the reddish blonde in your siggy pic.

 

I say either keep it long and dye it dark or chop it off and dye it blonder Woohoo!

 

I've been growing mine out and I know what you mean, it's hellish when you love short hair... but I really want to be able to put my hair up and I hate it getting in my face, so that's a good reason to keep it long as it'll be hot where we're getting married!

[DLyteful]

I love the long blond for a beach wedding, but like eveyone else says you should do what you think is best. Even if you cut it, and then want it long, I'm sure you know how to add extensions, so maybe you should go for it...., but you have been working soooo long to grow your hair out... Oh, I'm no help, I have no idea. All I know is you will look great anyway you have your hair, which is probably what your honey thinks too.

[rodent]

i love your natural hair. how do you have your hair more often? if the short brown was a drastic change for you, i'd keep your natural look. that way you look like you on your wedding day. then do something drastic after the wedding for the thrill.