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Michelle

im having surgery in a week and getting really scared :(

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It's such a huge thing to go through. You have every right to be anxious about your surgery. It's so good you are being proactive and getting yourself healthy! Just think, this time next year it will all be behind you!

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We are all here for you Shelly. I cannot imagine what you are going through. But know that we are all here for you, cheering you on.

 

Be brave

 

HUGS

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I'm so sorry to hear what you have to go through sad.gif It's a scary thing to deal with because you worry if it still be there. Don't think about it too much because it will only make you more depressed. Everything will turn out better for you once you have the surgery and recover. Just know that you have family and friends and even us BDW folks here to support you. I believe in the power of prayer and that it will give you a sense of peace. Ask the high almighy to protect you during your surgery and for a speedy recovery. Just know that you will have a guardian angel there with you to help you get through it. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

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thank you so much to all of you :)....it makes me feel better to know that I have so much support for this...I am going to try get some sleep now though so I am not a cry baby tomorrow (no sleep for me means I even cry at commercials lol) .... thank you so much again though you girls are all amazing :) so glad i am on here

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I'm sorry Shelly and we are all here for you. You have every right to feel the anxiety, nervousness and emotions. Try to stay positive, and it will be over with before you know it, it sounds like you have a very supportive FI who will be with you every step of the way.

 

While in the hospital you can rest and take it easy. Bring books, movies, IPOD and anything that makes you feel comfortable. I completely understand missing your FI; bring one of his t-shirts with you that he has worn (it may comfort you). This will be over with soon and then you can focus on finishing school and planning your beautiful wedding. You are in my thoughts and prayers!

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Shelly,

 

You have a light at the end of the long and horrible tunnel. YOU have Will and the rest of your life to be thinking about once you cross this hurdle. Be thankful you knew about this and savor your moments.

 

I commend you Shelly for kicking some serious Cancer Ass!!

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Shelly...I don't know you but I think you are so brave!! I'm really proud of you for saving your life and fighting for all that matters to you. Its totally understandable that your scared. But once you've completely healed and you get to live a long life with your husband, you will see it was all worth it. You and your husband are very special people. i will keep you both in my prayers. Lets kick this cancers ass and have one hell of a wedding!!!

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Wow...that is a lot to handle. It is going to be a long process but we are all here for you! It is great that you have Will to help you through it, that will help greatly in your recovery. You also have so many amazing things to look forward to, like your destination wedding!!! Stay positive and strong and keep us posted.

 

We have PM'd several times and as you know I am in Toronto...and I will be around so if you need anything or even want some company do not hesitate to contact me!

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Oh my God, Shelly I am so incredibly sorry that you're having to go through this at this age! And also so sorry for the loss of your Mom. Wow... I'm crying for you. Hang in there sweetie. You sound very strong. I know how hard it is to be young and sick and watching your friends succeeding at life while you have to sit in the background...and my mom also passed away when I was young. My heart goes out to you. I am praying for you. hug2.gif

 

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