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#31 Hartyt509

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    Posted 11 September 2008 - 02:11 PM

    As much as his dad is a complete twat there is no point in FI going off on him because it will egg him on unfortunately.

    I know you are angry and have every right to be but let it go, if you make a big deal out of it FI will not tell you anything in fear of you kicking off, I know because I have a deal with my FI. Don't tell me about your arse of a mother then I have no ammo lol

    However he wouldn't be coming to my wedding if I hated him, saying that FMIL is at mine!!

    You have to have faith in your FI and accept his dad is a cock (sorry if that offends anyone lol), take a deep breath and ignore his ass when you see him.

    #32 *Casey*

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      Posted 11 September 2008 - 02:47 PM

      Thanks everyone for your words of wisdom and support. Know that it is GREATLY appreciated!!! Yall are the best!

      #33 Jenn3878

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        Posted 11 September 2008 - 03:46 PM

        Wow Casey I am sorry that you are going through this! His "Dad" definately sounds like a douche, I am sure you know your FI and he probably thinks the same thing. Definately dont tell your mom or his mom - they would want to kick his "Dad's" @ss!!

        #34 MsSunshine

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          Posted 11 September 2008 - 04:07 PM

          I cannot believe your fiance's dad would bring that up. What an a@#hole to do that especially knowing that he's in love and getting married. I wouldn't want to have anything to do with his father period. You have better things to deal with instead of the stupid crap that comes out of his father's mouth. I'm glad your fiance told his father that he had other things to do to avoid the subject. Yeah I'm thinking he should've told his father off about trying to get him to cheat on you behind your back. He should've just told him that he's not like his father to go out and cheat. You should talk to your fiance about how you feel and that it simply bothers you. Hopefully the next time he chats with his father he can tell him that it wasn't cool for him to get him laid and that is not what love is all about. Good luck!

          #35 DanielleNDerek

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            Posted 11 September 2008 - 05:01 PM

            Holly sh*t! I havent' been on all day, what a dirty man your ffil is. I would be furious with him too. But don't get mad at your fi, he might not have the kind of relationship with his dad that he feels he can call him out on things like that. But i find it really disrespectful to you that ffil said that to fi. It's kinda creepy.

            He's probably just so lonely loser that doesn't know what being in a strong/healthy relationship is like. I want to smack him for you.
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            #36 *Casey*

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              Posted 11 September 2008 - 10:46 PM

              Please DO!!!

              #37 ikupoo

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                Posted 12 September 2008 - 03:55 AM

                My jaw just dropped to the floor. Let me bend over and pick it up!
                Sex slavery in poor country is something that REALLY bothers the hell out of me, and I don't want to visit Thailand for that particular reason. I would cry my eyes out if I see an old man with an 8 year old!
                I'm sorry that your father in law has to attend the wedding. I wish it were simple enough to cut all ties with him. Don't be hurt by not getting any recognition from that creep, it's probably for the better.
                Ych! I think I have to shower now. I feel dirty.

                My prayers are with you!

                #38 Hartyt509

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                  Posted 12 September 2008 - 08:09 AM

                  Quote:
                  Originally Posted by ikupoo
                  My jaw just dropped to the floor. Let me bend over and pick it up!
                  Sex slavery in poor country is something that REALLY bothers the hell out of me, and I don't want to visit Thailand for that particular reason. I would cry my eyes out if I see an old man with an 8 year old!
                  I'm sorry that your father in law has to attend the wedding. I wish it were simple enough to cut all ties with him. Don't be hurt by not getting any recognition from that creep, it's probably for the better.
                  Ych! I think I have to shower now. I feel dirty.

                  My prayers are with you!
                  I know where you are coming from but you are missing out on a beautiful country by not going. I have been lots of times and have never seen any old man with an 8 year old unless they are related.

                  Also not everyone that goes there goes for that - a lot do - too many in my opinion but not everyone.

                  My dad lives in Bali and there is no way in hell he falls into that category, most of them that do are german believe it or not!

                  #39 amandalovesryan

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                    Posted 12 September 2008 - 08:57 AM

                    Casey, i want you to know that i am mad for you! I am gritting my teeth at the thought of this a-hole.
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                    #40 *Casey*

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                      Posted 12 September 2008 - 10:50 AM

                      I'm so sad about it now... I can't believe I have to be related to this prick




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