| Originally Posted by Amarillis |
Harty, you definately have a good point.
I should be honest - I don't LOVE showers either, I have been known to get out of them too... I think we are all guilty of that.... but, I know HANDS DOWN... that I would be on the "beast" list, if I were to skip a shower for one of my SIL's be it for a bridal, baby, or whatever.
I know I'd get flack.
Stick up for yourself they'll stop pissing you about it works for me - I had to stop speaking to my best mate for 3 months before she finally realised she was being a cow and now its fine.
I'm really lucky in a way because I refuse to have anything to do with his family and as he's in the army and we live miles away from his lot we can usually get out of stuff lol funny thing FI can't stand them either lmao I always blame the dogs ha ha ha thats how I got out of FMIL's LAST wedding