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My FI is coming home!!!!!!!

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Has he always been like this about communication?

You know what now that I think about it he has. He's not a real big phone person and this really shouldn't surprise me. I can recall a time when we were dating his phone was off the whole weekend and I couldn't find him and was worried sick. I should have expected him to pull some thing like this. I guess right now all I can do is wait for him to call and try to be calm when I answer the phone.

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It's not fair that he hasn't called you back though, that is not okay.

 

You are suppose to be partners and need to have some sort of communication. I would definitely talk to him about it when he finally gets to your house.

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It's not fair that he hasn't called you back though, that is not okay.

You are suppose to be partners and need to have some sort of communication. I would definitely talk to him about it when he finally gets to your house.
I know this really isn't fair to me at all. I really can't wait until he gets here because the type of talk we need to have needs to happen face to face and not over the phone.

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I know this really isn't fair to me at all. I really can't wait until he gets here because the type of talk we need to have needs to happen face to face and not over the phone.
Yes, definitely!

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I'm glad you plan to talk to him face to face. Conversations over the phone can easily turn into misunderstandings and miscommunication. Bottom line though, he is not treating you with the respect he should be. He's also ignoring your feelings and instead of wanting to make the situation better he's shutting you out. I hope he comes home soon so you don't have to be in limbo like this. Sucks.

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I would stop calling him and just let him call you back. I think you'll drive yourself crazy by keep calling him and him not answering or calling back. I know i would lose it. Try to keep yourself occupied by staying on BDW! lol

 

And when he gets home you can talk to him about not calling you back!

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I agree with the girls. You deserve at least a phone call with an explanation of what is going on and when he will be home. That is not right of him to leave you hanging and waiting. I hope this all gets figured out when he arrives home. But make sure you have that talk because issues like this don't go away and communication is the life line to happiness.

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Ok I am officially done calling my FI. I'm tired of hearing his voice mail and leaving him messages. When he wants to talk to let me know what the hell is going on then he'll call. It's going to be tough not calling him but thats what I have to do right now. I didn't even want to tell my mom about it because I knew she would flip and she did. Her exact words were I'm sick of people fucking with my daughters. That did make me chuckle a little because that is so not like my mom. I thank you ladies for all your support. I really needed it. So for now I'm going to write some things down that are concerning me and get ready for our long talk. I really hope all goes well.

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