Posted 06 March 2007 - 04:50 AM
K tells her that she would have appreciated knowing that since M obviously knew this for awhile. M apologized and said she felt guilty, suggested other singles she may want to room with, and kind of tried to help her. K said she didn't know if she could afford to go alone at the last minute, and M said K should not have agreed to be in my wedding if she couldn't afford it, and suggested she find a cheap hotel in her price range. That's where it went south as M recently came into mucho money and has rubbed some people the wrong way with it. K was crying, M told me she only went there with the money after K would not accept her apologies and offer to help find another roomate. I come into this when K calls me to vent. I felt for her (struggling student, part time job) and said I had to get M's story too. M says she was going to offer to pay for K's whole trip until K got mad at her. Now both are cursing each other, M actually said she hates K, and they both vow not to speak until the wedding and even then it will be just civil enough not to make a scene.
I don't know where I'm going with this but writing it out makes me see how silly it is, we've been friends for like 15 years. I told them both I'm glad it's not me in the mix of this drama and that I could care less if they are friends or not so long as they show up with the right dress.
I'll be busy marrying the man of my dreams
Thanks for listening......
Posted 06 March 2007 - 09:52 AM
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Posted 06 March 2007 - 10:27 AM
Posted 06 March 2007 - 11:35 AM
| Originally Posted by TAMMYM |
Well IMO if I had planned on rooming with another person and then three months before the wedding they told me their now going to take someone with them and I have to get my own room, and money was tight.. Yeah I would be ticked off as well. If M was going to offer to still split the cost of the room she should have said it up front, IMO.. So that K (even if she didn't accept it) would have known that M wanted to help out.
Also, did K call M and ask about this? If so, that is another bad thing against M in my opinion, M should have called her as soon as she decided to bring someone, no two ways about it.
Posted 06 March 2007 - 11:43 AM
Posted 06 March 2007 - 12:57 PM
Posted 06 March 2007 - 02:45 PM
Posted 07 March 2007 - 12:36 AM
K did find out by calling M so that is wrong. And yes, I realized there is more to this. M feels like she is always bailing K out (paying for things, loaning her $) and she felt she didn't have to be responsible for finding her a roommate. K feels like M always choses men over her. Whatever, we're too old for this.
They haven't spoken yet, but they both called me apologizing for involving me in their mess when I am supposed to be happy about the wedding right now, so at least they are aware that they're being stupid. I'm sure it will blow over eventually. I considered no bm's but these 6 ladies have been instrumental in my life so it only felt right that they partake.
Thanks for your opinions, I didn't want to tell my other bm's their drama so I'm glad to have you guys!
Posted 25 May 2007 - 05:24 AM
Posted 25 May 2007 - 06:55 AM
We all hung out at my bach slumber party last month and as suspected, jumbo margaritas solved it all. Then K got a girlfriend to go with her & share the costs - a friend I don't know. I hear M and this friend don't get along but whatever....maybe I'll have a juicy story to share in a few weeks. My bach party is in Mexico and when you factor in alcohol, if these 2 don't get along this could get interesting )
Thanks for asking
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