Posted 02 March 2007 - 07:23 PM
we've been friends (through work) for a couple of years, we get along great, go out for drinks after work together, whatever...
so she was invited to our engagement party back in august...she rsvp'd and said she was coming, but didn't show up...fine i figured something must have come up last minute
she was invited to the wedding, she said she was coming for sure there was no way she'd miss it...she rsvp'd that she's coming....now she's saying that she's not
she was invited to my bach party and shower (both this weekend) and rsvp'd to both saying she's coming AGAIN...and today we find out that she's not coming to either of those either...
i really don't know what to think...she's not even giving any reasons why she's backed out of all this stuff, she has just changed her mind and is now saying no...should i take this personally and be upset by it or just shrug it off? i really don't know how to react
Posted 02 March 2007 - 07:38 PM
The only thing I was thinking that could be an explanation to her behaviour is maybe she's nervous Does she know anyone else at the wedding/bachlorette/bridal shower other than you? Maybe intially she doesn't want to hurt your feelings by saying no, and then realizes as the date gets closer that she just doesn't want to go if she doesn't know anyone else
What about her cash situation? Maybe she's really tight with money and is too embarrassed to explain it to you
I don't think she's doing it to hurt you deliberately (since she is intially saying yes to all these events)...but maybe that's the only way she knows how to handle sticky situations if she's too embarrassed to tell the truth.
Those are the only explanations I can think of! Hope it helps a bit....
Posted 02 March 2007 - 07:40 PM
Posted 02 March 2007 - 07:45 PM
She seems to have some issues
Posted 02 March 2007 - 07:48 PM
Otherwise, too bad for her to be missing out on such a great time
Posted 02 March 2007 - 08:03 PM
Posted 02 March 2007 - 08:09 PM
Proud Mama to Evelyn Eileen since June 8, 2010
Posted 02 March 2007 - 10:31 PM
Posted 02 March 2007 - 10:38 PM
"You've RSVP's for everything and yet you've nver showed up. Are things ok?"
That should open lines of communication. It's funny that weddings and the birth of children brings out the best and the worst in people.
Posted 02 March 2007 - 10:45 PM
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