So stressed...just want to cancel the whole thing
Posted 15 August 2008 - 02:05 PM
Posted 15 August 2008 - 02:08 PM
Posted 17 August 2008 - 03:14 PM
Take a deep breath, sit back compose yourself and ask FI to get his mother to back off because if he doesn't you will and you will piss her off no end lol
If your mum is paying for a lot of the wedding then FMIL can poke off inviting so many people. I agree with everyone else tell her over 15 SHE is paying for the extras.
As for the rest of it you need to decide what you and FI want and then TELL FMIL what is happening - she doesn't get a say its not her wedding!
My FMIL is a control freak 2 but she was warned early that I take no crap and she knows i'd rip her apart if she started so up to now she's kept it shut lol
It will work out you just need to get your game plan sorted and stick to it
Posted 19 August 2008 - 08:37 AM
I haven't jumped off the bridge yet....and I haven't sent out the save the dates yet. I just finished (well...good enough for now) my website and drafted a letter to put in with my save the dates directing people to the website for travel info and all that stuff.
My new gripe is my dress. Does it really take 6 -7 months for the dress to come in I only have 9 months until the wedding. I just haven't walked out of the dressing room and said...yup this is it! I am going again to 2 more stores on Sat. Wish me luck!
Hey...what kind of dresses are you wearing....is it ok to wear a traditional gown on the beach...everyone thinks it would be too much....I am not talking a princess poofy dress...just a nice a-line....what about a train My wedding is going to be on the beach...weather permitting.
Posted 19 August 2008 - 08:59 AM
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Posted 19 August 2008 - 11:47 AM
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