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#1 svisconte

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    Posted 15 August 2008 - 08:53 AM

    Hello ladies,
    I just wanted to apologize for not being on the forum in awhile. Alot has happened in the last 2 months. Good news and Bad news. The good news is that my fiance and I just bought a beautiful house. We have been here for 3 weeks and it already feels like home. The bad news is that the day before we closed on the house i found out that I need to have major hip surgery. I have dysplacia in my right hip and because of that I have tramatic arthritus and a joint that is wearing down to the bone quite rapidly. The doctor said I MUST do it no later then 6 months. In six months I was supposed to get married in mexico. I have had to unfortunately postpone my wedding in april. This came as a great shock to us and I am completely devastated. I just thank god that I hadnt sent out the save the dates yet. Which I was really lucky considering I was planning on sending them out the day we closed on the house. They say everything happens for a reason and that things will all work out. I just wish I new the reason. Anyways, So the new plan is to get married the following april of 2010. Its kind of a set back but at the same time it gives me more time to plan and chat with all you wonderful ladies on the forum.
    Thanks for listening to my rant. and good luck to all the upcoming brides.

    #2 DanielleNDerek

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      Posted 15 August 2008 - 08:56 AM

      I'm sorry Selina that you had to cancel your wedding. But your health is very important. Now with all this extra planning time, your wedding will be even better.
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      #3 Jen_S

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        Posted 15 August 2008 - 08:58 AM

        Congrats on the new house Selina! So sorry to hear you have to postpone your wedding, but your health comes first and just think when you walk down the aisle you will not have any pain!!!
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        #4 yamille

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          Posted 15 August 2008 - 08:59 AM

          Oh Selina I'm so sorry that you had to postpone the wedding!

          That really sucks but I am also a believer in things happening for a reason (even though usually at the time it stinks..) I wish you a speedy recovery with your hip and Congrats on your new house!

          #5 beachbride08

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            Posted 15 August 2008 - 09:47 AM

            Congratulations on the house! I hope your surgery goes well. At least you found out now rather than when you had really started making plans, and you'll have plenty of BDW time while you recover from surgery.

            #6 Dez921714

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              Posted 15 August 2008 - 09:48 AM

              Congratulations on the house!

              I'm so sorry about your hip My mom had severe arthritus in her hip and had a total hip replacement when I was about 6. In the 80s technology wasn't what it is now and she needed to have it redone 10 years later, but now it's been 14 years and she's still going strong. Most people have NO idea.

              Best luck with the surgery!!!

              I agree, everything happens for a reason!
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              #7 boscobel

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                Posted 15 August 2008 - 10:17 AM

                Oh, I am so sorry. There isn't much that I can say, but I hope your surgery goes well! Oh and congrats on the house! That is great news, so focusing on the good is a great idea.

                #8 *Casey*

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                  Posted 15 August 2008 - 10:25 AM


                  I'm so sorry to hear about you having to postpone your wedding. I am I firm believer that everything always just works itself out. If you think about it... things that you were so worried and stressed over 3 years ago probably never even cross your mind anymore. This is just a little bump in the road, but it will all work out. It always does.

                  And a new house! That's worth celebrating... CONGRATS! Got pics?

                  #9 Erin6341

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                    Posted 15 August 2008 - 10:27 AM

                    I am sorry to hear you have to postpone your wedding! I hope the surgery goes well and the recovery period is quick. Just think, less pain in your hip means more dancing on your wedding!

                    Congrats on the new house!

                    #10 kerryjbrown

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                      Posted 15 August 2008 - 10:29 AM


                      I am very sorry to hear about your hip and you having to postpone the wedding. Congratulationson the new house! That is good news as whether you are married or not, you are still creating your life together as a family and the love is just as strong! Best of luck on your surgury and wishing you a speedy recovery!

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