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Are you sharing a room with FI night before the wedding?

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#81 JodJ

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    Posted 10 May 2009 - 12:19 AM

    We are also going to sleep in separate beds. I am going to spend the night with my bridesmaids. I hope they don't keep me up too late!

    We are looking to share a photographer during the week of June 6th to June 12th in Punta Cana, Dominican Republic

    #82 jk1101

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      Posted 10 May 2009 - 09:49 AM

      I think I will be stressed out enough without sleeping away from him! We'll sleep together and split up to get ready.

      #83 whitni

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        Posted 11 May 2009 - 11:48 PM

        Originally Posted by Chantal85
        I've decided to kick mine out...not for tradition, but to bond with my girls! We're taking the honeymoon suite and doing a big slumber party. My girlfriends and family are spread out across the country so we need to catch up! My bridesmaids will get their gift that night which will be robes and we'll do a fun spa-night slumber party, maybe get some cots brought in so people have somewhere to sleep. FI can take one of the girl's empty room or crash in one of his guy's room. FI and I will probably get together for breakfast and then part ways.

        I love this idea!

        #84 blurt

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          Posted 12 May 2009 - 07:48 AM

          We aren't sleeping together the night before, my FI is going in with his best man and my best friend is staying with me. We are getting married at 11am so we won't have to spend the day apart.

          #85 liz1717

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            Posted 12 May 2009 - 08:18 PM

            We are going to spend the night apart. He will stay with his best man, who lives far away so it will give them some man-time together. My sister wil probably stay with me. I can't wait to see my FI for the first time on our wedding day as I walk down the aisle!

            #86 mctilleys

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              Posted 13 May 2009 - 09:04 PM

              Almost every aspect of our wedding has been a discussion (many of them heated!), but this is one thing we never even had to discuss. We both know we do not want to stay together at the resort until our wedding night. He will be staying with two of his guy friends and I will be staying with my sisters. Honestly, I get a little choked up thinking about how emotional the last night with my sisters will be. BUT, it will be SO much fun!

              Also, we will not be living together until we come back from our trip, so that probably has something to do with it.


              #87 Mel&B

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                Posted 13 May 2009 - 09:28 PM

                Ok, we totally intended on staying the night apart, but in the end, we both just wanted a really good night of sleep. We slept together, and I kinda denied him the night before. He left early in the morning, and we didn't see eachother again until the ceremony.

                We were so busy the night before, it would have been difficult for him to pack up all of his stuff and leave our room.

                #88 Shinbinea

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                  Posted 13 May 2009 - 10:02 PM

                  Absence makes the heart grow founder.
                  We aren't planning on spending the night together - I like the idea of the anticipation on the big day. I plan on kicking him out for the night - no idea where he is going to sleep but I'm sure we can figure something out :P

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