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Are you sharing a room with FI night before the wedding?

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#21 KatyKo

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    Posted 15 August 2008 - 09:52 AM

    I believe that we will proabably stay separate. I would like to spend the night with my girls and I'm sure he would like to spend the night with his guys. I think it would be fun to not see him until we are ready to do a photo session before the ceremony. :) But that is all in theory!

    #22 pryzeless

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      Posted 15 August 2008 - 09:53 AM

      We are spending the night apart. I think he is going to crash with some of his friends. We live together and we miss each other when we don't get to see each other. And it gives him time to spend boys time and me girls time with my girls. I don't get to spend that much time with just girls. Plus I think it will add to the drama of seeing me walk down the aisle for the first time. That is just my opinion.

      Also, I sleep terrible without him but I am going to sleep terrible the night before anyway.

      #23 Jenn

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        Posted 15 August 2008 - 10:00 AM

        We spent the night together and it was perfect :) We actually woke up for sunrise (not planned, but really special) and then spent the morning together including a couples massage. We had discussed going our seperate ways, but we were at a very small resort and it would've been difficult. He was going to go fishing that morning or something, but in the end, I'm really glad that we stayed together. We lived together, so sleeping in seperate beds just felt odd.

        #24 Virg

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          Posted 15 August 2008 - 03:12 PM

          We are lucky!

          Our resort (MLD) during low season has no single occupancy supplementary fee. So many of our single guests have a whole room to themselves. So I am having a girlie sleep over in my MOH's room, and he is having a macho cigar night the night before we say ''I DO ! ''
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          #25 JaimeLynne

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            Posted 15 August 2008 - 03:22 PM

            FI is turning out to be very traditional about these kindsa things which I find both cute and funny. So we will be sleeping in separate rooms the night before. I will be staying in our room (will probably grab a BM to come stay with me) and he will find someone else to bunk with for the night... not exactly sure how this is gonna work out but we'll make it happen - even if we need to get an extra room for 1 night

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            #26 *Casey*

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              Posted 15 August 2008 - 03:25 PM

              We're doing it a bit more traditionally. Each of us are sharing a room with our MOH or BM the night before the wedding. Then the night of the wedding, we'll be together in a suite and the MOH and BM can either have a room to themselves or bunk up with some of their friends that are coming too.

              #27 Carolyn

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                Posted 15 August 2008 - 04:08 PM

                Mine will be kicked out but the hotel will provided a room for the groom if not he will go with his best man for the night. I want to have a big slumber party with the girls the night before.

                #28 ErinB


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                  Posted 15 August 2008 - 04:28 PM

                  I spent the night with my BMs. 3 of us we snuggled into a King size bed. It was actually a lot of fun hanging out with them - kinda like a slumber party.

                  DH was adament about not seeing each other until the ceremony, so we made sure to call around before going anywhere. It was actually pretty funny!

                  #29 destined4greatnesss

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                    Posted 15 August 2008 - 04:39 PM

                    I say, "To Each His Own!"It all depends on what your beliefs are. My FI & I will continue to keep it pure until we say "I Do." Not for nothing, I'm old fashioned & so is he.

                    So bottom line~
                    Whatever Floats Your Boat.

                    Have Fun!
                    Love Hard!
                    Be Safe & most of all Be Blessed!


                    #30 nicholch

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                      Posted 15 August 2008 - 07:53 PM

                      We will stay in separate rooms. Each of us has plans to hang out with our girl/guy friends the night before. There is not a lot of tradition in our wedding, so this will be one!

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