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#31 MelanieS

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    Posted 05 August 2008 - 04:10 PM

    Lisa, even though this had to have been the hardest decision you have ever made, you definitely deserve someone who will treat you with respect, honor, and love. Hang in there, keep busy, take that vacation, and keep in touch. You made the right choice, and someday when your Prince comes along, you'll have no doubts whatsoever. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

    #32 sunset78

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      Posted 05 August 2008 - 04:15 PM

      Sorry to hear about your situation, but glad that you left. It takes a strong woman to leave an abusive relationship... there are so many out there living with an abuser everyday. I use to be apart of Victim Services for years, and so many women would not leave their situation or ended up going back to the abuser because the abuser promised never to be like that again (but majority never change).

      #33 Spazz

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        Posted 05 August 2008 - 04:23 PM

        I'm so sorry for what you're going through, but so proud of you for making the decision that you did. We're here if you need to talk...

        #34 Nrvsbride

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          Posted 05 August 2008 - 04:28 PM

          Lisa I have been wondering where you were. I'm so sorry that you are going through a breakup right now. I def think you should go to Mexico in December so that you can try to relax and not be at home thinking about it. Go with your girlfriends and get ridiculously drunk. I hope you start to feel better soon and you know we are always here for you. You don't have to have a DW or any wedding for that matter in order to be a BDW friend so I hope you'll still stick around and chit chat with us.

          #35 yamille

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            Posted 05 August 2008 - 04:36 PM

            I'm so sorry to hear your news.

            Like everyone else said- grab a friend and go in that trip!

            #36 angela1184

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              Posted 05 August 2008 - 04:40 PM

              you are such a strong woman to have delt with the abuse and actually decide to do something rather than settle...yeah it may be hard now, but in the end you will look back and realize this is for the best and its better NOW than later on when kids are involved. continue to stay strong and remember you dont deserve to be treated that way or live a life on pins and needles.

              Best of luck and FOR SURE pack your bags and head out to the warm sandy beaches of MX and live it up w a friend or two

              if you need to get rid of some things i havent even begun to purchase oot items so id be glad to take some off your hands--PM me

              stay strong and you did the right thing

              #37 hanna

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                Posted 05 August 2008 - 04:58 PM

                It is so great to hear that you are so strong and ended it before the wedding! I was with someone for 6 years and knew that it was wrong but didnt know how to get out of it. He was verbally abusive also, none of my friends liked him... finally I found out he cheated on me and I was actually glad because it was an easy out. I went to Mexico a month later with my girlfriends, it totally helped! Partied it up and felt truly happy for the first time in a very very long time. Being with someone that is manipulative is so dangerous because it sucks you in.

                Once you are out of this crappy part of adjusting to a different life, you will realize what a great decision you made!

                Congrats for being so strong!! I really admire you!

                #38 Kelly C

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                  Posted 05 August 2008 - 05:22 PM

                  I'm really sorry to hear this. But I am hear to tell you that you did the best thing for YOU! I wish I had smartend up sooner. With my first marriage. I knew it was wrong before the wedding, but didn't have the courage to call it off.
                  I think you should deffinently go to MX. Sooner than later. Get away for everything and give your self a break.
                  Let us know if we can help.
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                  #39 Virg

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                    Posted 05 August 2008 - 06:39 PM

                    I am so sorry for what you are going through!
                    I hope that you can see that light at the end of the clouds...

                    And I would DEFINETELY suggest going on a trip!
                    Hell, if your girlfriend's can't go, I'LL GO!

                    BIG HUGS
                    P.S. I have some poutine here with your name on it, nothing like canadiana feel-good food!
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                    #40 azhuskergirl

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                      Posted 05 August 2008 - 06:46 PM

                      You are a very strong woman & you did the best thing for yourself by walking away.

                      Go to Mexico, you deserve it!

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