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[EricaG]

Sorry to hear what you have been going through. That is never an easy time. I say go on the trip!!! Grab our BF and go enjoy yourself for a week. You will need the holiday by then anyway!

[Kristy!]

I'm so sorry to hear your news Lisa. Definitely take that trip to Mexico. You deserve it.

[Stormsong]

My ex was surprised....he didn't see it coming.
He was...abusive. Just took me a while to see it. He was angry ALL the time at everything. And took it out on me. I didn't clean enough, cook enough, the cats shed too much...everything was my fault. I just....realized i didn't want to spend my life like that. You know? I still wonder if i made a mistake....but...i don't think i did. I wasn't happy for a while...just...had a hard time admitting it to myself. <shrugs>
I still miss it though...the wedding planning. Anyone need any help? lol.

[Yari]

Oh my goodness, you poor thing.

You are such a strong woman to get out of an abusive relationship. You deserve much kudos.

I say you go on a vacation and have some fun.

Stay strong and know that we are here for you.

[rodent]

Definitly, go to Mexico. Take some friends & have a wonderful time. I've been wondering how things were going since I last talked to you. thanks for filling us in.

[rodent]

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Originally Posted by Stormsong My ex was surprised....he didn't see it coming. He was...abusive. Just took me a while to see it. He was angry ALL the time at everything. And took it out on me. I didn't clean enough, cook enough, the cats shed too much...everything was my fault. I just....realized i didn't want to spend my life like that. You know? I still wonder if i made a mistake....but...i don't think i did. I wasn't happy for a while...just...had a hard time admitting it to myself. <shrugs> I still miss it though...the wedding planning. Anyone need any help? lol.

replace the wedding planning with planning a great vacation.

[ErinB]

Wow Lisa! I can't imagine what you are feeling right now.

I admire your strength and courage for making such a difficult decision and following through with it. Only you know what is best for you and your life.

BDW will be here to support you!

[jmiranda]

Im so sorry to hear that...go to the trip and enjoy yourself!!!

[~Melissa~]

Lisa, I am so sorry to hear of your news. How are you holding up? If you need to vent, we're here to listen. Good luck with selling your OOT items. I totally think you need to go to Mexico and relax! Hope you're OK

[Stormsong]

Thanks Morgan. I missed talking to you too! And, congrats on your wedding. I loved the video. Made me cry!!! You look so beautiful! And, i love your photos!! (I think the one in your siggy is hot. The one with you 2 straddled each other. Wow!)
Love you guys!!