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Sorry to hear what you have been going through. That is never an easy time. I say go on the trip!!! Grab our BF and go enjoy yourself for a week. You will need the holiday by then anyway!

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My ex was surprised....he didn't see it coming.

He was...abusive. Just took me a while to see it. He was angry ALL the time at everything. And took it out on me. I didn't clean enough, cook enough, the cats shed too much...everything was my fault. I just....realized i didn't want to spend my life like that. You know? I still wonder if i made a mistake....but...i don't think i did. I wasn't happy for a while...just...had a hard time admitting it to myself. <shrugs>

I still miss it though...the wedding planning. Anyone need any help? lol.

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Oh my goodness, you poor thing.

 

You are such a strong woman to get out of an abusive relationship. You deserve much kudos.

 

I say you go on a vacation and have some fun.

 

Stay strong and know that we are here for you.

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Definitly, go to Mexico. Take some friends & have a wonderful time. I've been wondering how things were going since I last talked to you. thanks for filling us in.

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My ex was surprised....he didn't see it coming.
He was...abusive. Just took me a while to see it. He was angry ALL the time at everything. And took it out on me. I didn't clean enough, cook enough, the cats shed too much...everything was my fault. I just....realized i didn't want to spend my life like that. You know? I still wonder if i made a mistake....but...i don't think i did. I wasn't happy for a while...just...had a hard time admitting it to myself. <shrugs>
I still miss it though...the wedding planning. Anyone need any help? lol.

replace the wedding planning with planning a great vacation.

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Wow Lisa! I can't imagine what you are feeling right now.

 

I admire your strength and courage for making such a difficult decision and following through with it. Only you know what is best for you and your life.

 

BDW will be here to support you!

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Lisa, I am so sorry to hear of your news. How are you holding up? If you need to vent, we're here to listen. Good luck with selling your OOT items. I totally think you need to go to Mexico and relax! Hope you're OK hug2.gif

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Thanks Morgan. I missed talking to you too! And, congrats on your wedding. I loved the video. Made me cry!!! You look so beautiful! And, i love your photos!! (I think the one in your siggy is hot. The one with you 2 straddled each other. Wow!)

Love you guys!!

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