Strip Club for Bachelor Party?
Posted 25 March 2008 - 03:03 PM
I even take pole-dancing classes.. but for fun and the workout. Jayson would much rather see me doing a pole dance than some random girl anyways..
Posted 25 March 2008 - 03:14 PM
Posted 25 March 2008 - 03:26 PM
Posted 25 March 2008 - 03:43 PM
Posted 25 March 2008 - 05:00 PM
Posted 25 March 2008 - 05:35 PM
| Originally Posted by Dbld78 |
i'm not bothered by it at all....he goes every once in a while with the guys and then comes home and tells me EVERYTHING! i trust him to the fullest and well lets face it...would you rather them be honest with you or tell you they won't go and then they do and lie to you about it. tim's brother went to the strip club for his bachelor party 10 YEARS AGO and his wife still doesn't know.....because she would freak! i would just rather him be honest about......although the one thing that does bother me......is the money that they waste there.....lol!
completely agree. I really wouldn't care if he went to one, but only if he didn't spend more than $10. I know some guys that blow hundreds at strip clubs. That would make me really upset.
Posted 25 March 2008 - 05:45 PM
| Originally Posted by AlmostMrsForbes |
i really do trust him - that's not what i'm getting at.
the thought just sickens me ... like that kind of intimacy is only supposed to be shared with me. I also think it bothers me more because we are about to make this huge commitment to one another, etc.
i'm going to talk with him tonight and really let him know what i think about it. hopefully we can come to some kind of compromise - maybe no lap dances or something.
i also think that we're going to have my bachelorette party that night, too. i think that will help - at least i won't be alone and obsessing about it.
I think this is how I feel too. I don't really care if he goes to one, just not right before the wedding. I also don't like the idea of bachelor parties being one last big night before you get tied down. If you are marrying someone you should have been commited long before the wedding. I wouldn't want him to do anything before the wedding that he wouldn't do after.
We are having parties, but they will be pretty wholesome. I don't think either of us feel like we have anything we need to get out of our system before we get married.
Posted 25 March 2008 - 06:00 PM
Posted 25 March 2008 - 06:10 PM
I went to a rugby do once and I was the only girl among 60 blokes (not including the strippers) i laughed so hard i nearly wet myself lmao
There again i'm so laid back i'm horizontal lol
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