Strip Club for Bachelor Party?

[katiec519]

i really want to commend all you ladies on being so ok with your guys goin to a strip club. i danced for 4 years while going to school and there are soooooo many women i know who would freak if thier man was ever to go. really its refreshing to know that there are some women out there that are ok with it.

[TammyWright]

i think it is more the trust factor...like if they told you etc....if i found my hubby sneaking around then i would be pissed...

[-Kate-]

Seriously, what's he going to do? Leave a 10 year relationship for another girl just because she showed him her boobs for 10 minutes? That doesn't even make sense!! I think it's so weird when girls get worked up about it. There are bigger problems going on in the relationship if it's a serious concern.

 

I'm more concerned about him ending up in jail bc he and his boys get in some drunken trouble - they are known to get a bit klepto.

[Sarah]

I think I instantly want to say no because of other people in my past who have been less-than trustworthy! However, now that my FI are discussing this issue, I don't have a problem with him going to a strip club. I would waayy rather he do that than hire a private stripper to come to someone's house. It's so nice to be able to trust him though- I know he will have his fun night and be coming home to me after all.

[Jackie]

I voted, sure why not, but its easy for me to do that because Ryan is not into strip clubs at all. Ryan is a guys guy all the way, he would much rather be hanging out in the garage with the Harleys than in a club with the Stripers.

Jackie

[KARLA]

I said sure why not... It helps that my FI does not like strip clubs... but seriously, like Katie said, the guy seriously going to leave you for somebody that showed them her boobs for 10 minutes?

 

I trust my FI completely, so I didn't even think about it. He ended up (on his own) requesting NO strip clubs for his bachelor party because he wanted to just hang out with his friends.

[JPMO]

First of all OMG he's HOT... " buns of steel " comes to mind.

 

I voted "sure why not!" Maurice and I actually go to clubs together so it's no big deal. I trust him totally and it's only a job for the ladies so it's not like he's cheating or having an affair. For my bachellorette I actually want to take my girls to a strip tease class!!! How much fun would that be

[-Kate-]

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Originally Posted by JPMO First of all OMG he's HOT... " buns of steel " comes to mind. I voted "sure why not!" Maurice and I actually go to clubs together so it's no big deal. I trust him totally and it's only a job for the ladies so it's not like he's cheating or having an affair. For my bachellorette I actually want to take my girls to a strip tease class!!! How much fun would that be

That would be so much fun!! I have the Carmen Electra "striptease" workout tapes and they are fun for an alternative workout. It's be great to do it with a whole group of friends.

[LCBride2007]

Funny I just came across this thread when I was looking for something else. I voted "sure, why not" - Paul may end up going to one, but I think it would be more for the ritual thing than anything else. I actually doubt he'll end up going - he'd rather go play paintball with the boys.

 

I do, however, have a problem with bringing strippers or dancers into the house though. I'm not exactly sure why - but I feel like more happens when guys do that. Paul went to another bachelor party where they hired 2 girls - and after the dance, the girls gave "private dances" in the back bedroom. I'd bet $$ that there was no actual dancing involved! Paul agreed (no, he wasn't one that did it, but he told me who did, and I am not surpised, this guy is a sleeze). Anyway - I totally trust Paul, so it's not an issue.

[Christine]

My Fiance is scared that he will get beaten. Growing up in NV we are pretty used to them. He said one time he went and saw a bachelor party going on, he said the girls were slapping the guy all around...so now he is all freaked out. I am sure he will still go, but no biggie.