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Just wondering what everyone thinks of this:

 

would you be ok with your fiance going to a strip club for his bachelor party?

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this question made me giggle only because my FI was soooooo excited about the strip club (weird, I know) and then in Atlantic City he got way too drunk too early in the night and got sick so he didn't ever make it to the club. He was so sad, but I kinda just had to laugh because it was his fault (not mine!) that he didn't get strippers.

 

(This story makes him sound kinda lame, but I swear it was more like the idea that OF COURSE you see strippers at a bach party, it's your one time when that is allowed, and he missed it on account of his own stupidity....oops!)

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My FI and the boys are going to Vegas for his bachelor party. They go a few times a year. I am more worried about his friends making fools of themselves at the stripclub than I am him! LOL:) I trust Mike completely. The last time they went, one of his friends ran up a huge tab and then realized he left his wallet in the hotel.

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I voted "sure, why not," but that's kinda cheating because I know my FI is going to Charleston for the weekend with a few of his guy friends. His best man already assured me that they're too old for strip clubs. It doesn't really bother me though. I trust him. I just don't want to hear any questionable details.

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i begrudgingly let steve go to a strip club for his bachelor party but we did fight about it beforehand..afterwards i heard the details and had to laugh...there were 10 other bachelor parties that night and way too many guys and not enough girls so all the cute strippers were already "occuppied" so steve's friends bought him a few dances from a stripper that was a "little long in the tooth" as they say..

 

also, they were all sweaty and smelly and steve is a clean freak so it freaked him out...then they dragged the bachelors onstage to embarrass them. steve was so bummed. he came home early.

 

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Almost all of our friends are couples so we're doing a joint bachelor/bachelorette trip to Vegas. I volunteered us all to go to a strip club together. I said the only rule was that I get the lap-dance then he's not actually touching anyone else. Everyone laughed.

 

My FI isn't really into strip clubs but will go and have a good time. I bet we don't even get there, though!

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I said sure why not. Fiance did it and it sounds like they all had a great time. I wouldnt let FI go every weekend, but I understand the whole male ritual thing. It more about embarassing the hell out of the groom than the naked women. I can't say anything though, my girls got me a stripper and I am pretty sure it was way more raunchier than any strippers at a club with sercurity guards! Yikes!

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