NOT a funny.... I am STRESSED OUT!!!
Posted 26 June 2008 - 12:08 PM
Don't know which way is up in regard to these wedding plans (or lack thereof...) and don't know why it is that Matt isn't running for the hills right now~ If he knew what was good for him...
Moving into our own home tomorrow... and we are not organized AT ALL. It should be a happy/exciting experience and it's far from it. I can't focus on work and am basically a bumbling mess!
Have been speaking w/people (TA's, family, FI, friends, etc.) about just buggering off somewhere and DOING IT ALREADY! The thought of getting into mountains of debt for one day in December is just killing me. And yet, in the long run, I want to do it 'nicely' and what's a few grand?!
And THEN there's the aspect of my now not wanting to get wed on my birthday... or having to wait until then! Add in my resentment about our having had to delay from the get-go (b/c of a sibling getting married in between now and then)
And I wouldn't mind, but even if we were to clear off somewhere sooner, it's not like I'm all organized and ready to go! I'm a f*cking mess and in serious need of a vacation!
Things are really bubbling up just under the surface... That poor bastard must REALLY love me...
Posted 26 June 2008 - 12:51 PM
You need a week of no wedding thoughts what so ever, just to clear your head so you can think straight.
Posted 26 June 2008 - 12:56 PM
Posted 26 June 2008 - 01:15 PM
I'm checking out last-minute get-aways! Even 3 or 4 days in the sun - AWAY from work and the other BS! This girl is about to blow!
Posted 26 June 2008 - 01:21 PM
Posted 26 June 2008 - 03:00 PM
Hang in there and just try to prioritize everything. Focus on moving now, then think about the wedding in a few weeks. Taking it all on at once will just make you go crazy.
Posted 26 June 2008 - 03:16 PM
One day at a time and take a break from the wedding stuff if you can! **HUG**
150 INVITES / 6 YES / 13 NO
Posted 26 June 2008 - 03:23 PM
Are there any deals out there? Where do you live? Travelzoo publishes a top 20 every week - maybe you can get away!
Top 20 Weekly Travel Deals | Travelzoo Top 20®
Or you try last minute deals on some of the travel websites like Travelocity. I used to do those when I lived in NY...
Posted 26 June 2008 - 03:30 PM
Problem is with my parents having to be somewhere by a certain date - and not going to make it in December. The only opportunity to have them there (and that is THE single, most important thing to me) means doing it before the beginning of August...
And the destination now has to be somewhere convenient for them (enroute to where they have to be) and somewhat convenient for Matt's parents - who I don't know will even be able to make it at this short notice.
I need a glass of vino~
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