| Originally Posted by Dez921714 |
I'm also paranoid because it's more than just a wedding...people have already put down a lot of money to see us get married...
But, from reading your post it looks more like you are just experiencing something that I'm sure most of us have all gone through in our relationships. You both obviously love each other, sometimes life stresses you out and you need a little guidance. FI and I had one really rough patch about a year ago and we went to a counselor. I think if we had not sat down and talked about our problems there is a good chance we would not have lasted. It helped us learn how to do effectly communicate with each other. And I'm not saying it will always be perfect, you have to be realistic, but it absolutely helps guide you to make the right decisions.
If I were you I would ask a very close friend (maybe your mom) if they know a good counselor and try that. I would do it again a million times over knowing now how much it improved our relationship.