| Originally Posted by ~Crista-Lee~ |
I need to vent!!! I just got a pretty upsetting text from a friend/BM while I was at the gym tonight. She pretty much told me our friendship is over, that she wasn't going to a BM anymore... ya no kidding? I just can't believe she was spineless enough to do this over a text message!
Honestly.. it's a relief! We've grown apart but only because she's jealous that our other friend started dating my FI's best friend... I know she feels left out but she's done some pretty mean spirited things lately and said things that just weren't cool. We always invited her out and she always cancelled... I think we were the ones putting the work into the friendship.
It is a bit of a weight lifted off my shoulders... now I can have the person who truly has been there for me and who I truly want to be my MOH. I just couldn't have my one friend as a MOH before because the other would have been upset and left out... I didn't do what I wanted to make someone else happy WTF? I forgot this was my wedding.
My FI and I agree that I shouldn't respond to the messages. We're both happier that this weight has been lifted and I'm happier and better off without her friendship! C'est la vie!
Sorry to vent like this... you ladies might be the only one's who might at least some what understand... or maybe I'm just crazy.
Now do I ruin my work out tonight with a glass of wine
I am really shocked at how many of my friends I've gotten to see in their true light with my wedding coming about. Sad... it just makes me grateful for my other friends though.
I had a day today as well and am ruining it with beer. Enjoy your wine darling!