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#4031 ~Katie~

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    Posted 08 December 2009 - 05:56 AM

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    I would love to see your budget spreadsheet!! You can black out the amounts if you would like. Mine is starting to get super complicated. Do you mind sharing?
    sorry lindz, I haven't done this yet - I got a TEXT from my 'best friend/chief bridesmaid' telling me she's not coming Mexico or being my bridesmaid, that she thinks we've drifted apart bla bla bla, so I wasn't too great last night. feel like I've been dumped

    I'll do it tonight for you tho. x

    #4032 ~Katie~

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      Posted 08 December 2009 - 05:58 AM

      Amy, didn't get round to post yesterday evening, but wanted to send big hugs for yesterday. I hope your 'positive approach' worked and you were ok.



      #4033 ~Katie~

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        Posted 08 December 2009 - 06:30 AM

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        Hi ladies. Its been a few weeks, but I am finally getting around to loading some of our wedding photos from Hacienda Tres Rios. It was Amazing!!!

        I hope everything is going well for you. What a relief to be done. I feel like I need a two week vacation to get back to normal, but am trying to figure out who I can hire to put up the xmas tree instead :)

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        Welcome back and huge congratulations MRS!!!

        So glad to hear it all went so well, your photos look amazing....looks like it was a beautiful resort.

        hope married life is going well...and how cool to be able to share your first xmas together as husband and wife so soon after you've got married :)

        #4034 ~Nicole~

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          Posted 08 December 2009 - 10:17 AM

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          sorry lindz, I haven't done this yet - I got a TEXT from my 'best friend/chief bridesmaid' telling me she's not coming Mexico or being my bridesmaid, that she thinks we've drifted apart bla bla bla, so I wasn't too great last night. feel like I've been dumped

          I'll do it tonight for you tho. x
          Ouch... I know this probably won't help you feel better about this situation right now, but the truth is, you're much better off not having her share your special day if she's feeling like that. Did you see this coming or was it out of the blue? Crazy.
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          #4035 ~Katie~

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            Posted 08 December 2009 - 10:27 AM

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            Ouch... I know this probably won't help you feel better about this situation right now, but the truth is, you're much better off not having her share your special day if she's feeling like that. Did you see this coming or was it out of the blue? Crazy.
            thanks Nicole. I don't really know what I'm feeling at the moment - a bit of everything and nothing all at the same time.

            tbh things have been strained between us since I booked the wedding but that's all been due to me feeling that she's not been making any effort. We have spoken about it before but she's always said it's been her and she's sorry etc etc. she didn't make me going to try on wedding dresses, and she didn't make it round to my house to try on her BM dress and shoes. so many annoying things but I never thought she'd do this. I know she's busy (she has her own kids) and I just thought when we got there she'd get into it then without all her 'life' distractions.

            but as much as everyone else seems to be focusing on the wedding-side of things, I'm more bothered and upset by what this means for our friendship.

            #4036 ~Nicole~

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              Posted 08 December 2009 - 10:52 AM

              Awwww Katie...... I always say, especially after my own experience, weddings make people crazy... seriously. I felt like so many close friends and family would do things completely out of character. Maybe you both just need some time to think about things. I hope it all works out, but in the meantime you have us :)
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              #4037 daniepps

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                Posted 08 December 2009 - 11:06 AM

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                thanks Nicole. I don't really know what I'm feeling at the moment - a bit of everything and nothing all at the same time.

                tbh things have been strained between us since I booked the wedding but that's all been due to me feeling that she's not been making any effort. We have spoken about it before but she's always said it's been her and she's sorry etc etc. she didn't make me going to try on wedding dresses, and she didn't make it round to my house to try on her BM dress and shoes. so many annoying things but I never thought she'd do this. I know she's busy (she has her own kids) and I just thought when we got there she'd get into it then without all her 'life' distractions.

                but as much as everyone else seems to be focusing on the wedding-side of things, I'm more bothered and upset by what this means for our friendship.
                That really sucks and the fact that she told you in a text makes it even worse. I think weddings bring out the best in some people and the worst in others and usually at the end of a wedding you know who your true friends are. I'm sure it hurts knowing you're going to lose your friend but right now the most important thing is you and your wedding. I foresee the same thing happening with me and my best friend. She's been very distant about the whole wedding (after she asked why I wanted to get married) and she didn't even call to tell me happy birthday last week. So I'm kinda bracing and preparing myself for her to cancel out but I know it's still going to hurt if he does happen.

                #4038 amybermuda

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                  Posted 08 December 2009 - 11:23 AM

                  Oh girls that sucks about your friends not being supportive. Its so hard to understand why someone wouldn't want to celebrate with your happiest moments in life. I honestly think that when things like this happen - it is not you - it is their own issues. All you can do is be honest and hope they can be honest with you.

                  SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

                  I'll be thinking of you girls !!!!

                  #4039 amybermuda

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                    Posted 08 December 2009 - 11:24 AM

                    Ash - thanks so much for sending your photos. I love your dress and your ceremony location was amazing and the table settings at your reception was gorgeous! Congratulations!!!!!

                    #4040 renee1811

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                      Posted 08 December 2009 - 11:52 AM

                      Katie, I'm so sorry to hear about your friend. I HATE when people decide to break news like that over a text message--SOOOO rude.




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