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#16011 Jess878

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    Posted 09 February 2013 - 07:21 AM

    Same here... I emailed Erika(WC) to see what she says but Im thinking she's going to say they both have to booked which then means the vendor fee is cheaper.  Let me know what your dj says regarding bringing an asst or something b/c I havent officially booked a dj yet. 



    #16012 Jess878

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      Posted 09 February 2013 - 07:24 AM

      Originally Posted by MK0386 

      We must literally be on the same wavelength bc I just had the SAME thought. I just emailed my DJ and Photographer to ask them what 3 nights the prefer and that's when I thought of it. I'm fairly certain my photographer is coming solo and I'm going to check on my DJ right now. Errr...... wasted money drives me craazzzzzyyy!

      Same here... I emailed Erika(WC) to see what she says but Im thinking she's going to say they both have to booked which then means the vendor fee is cheaper. Let me know what your dj says regarding bringing an asst or something b/c I havent officially booked a dj yet.



      #16013 MK0386

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        Posted 09 February 2013 - 09:15 AM

        Ok girls.... I'm sorry I just have to vent for a moment.... Up until today I was under the impression everyone was on board with our DW. Well, my FI family (mainly his mothers side of the family) are canceling left and right and his mother is really taking it personally bc the people canceling are her siblings (my FI's aunts/uncles). So she says to me "I really wish you were just getting married here!" WHAT??? ummm...im sorry.... you're mad at ME that YOUR family is canceling?? the kicker is that NOONE else lives in NC on my side or my FI's side except us and my soon to be inlaws. point being- people would have to travel either way!!! oh that just rubbed me the wrong way and really pissed me off!! anyone out there that can relate??



        #16014 Jess878

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          Posted 09 February 2013 - 09:55 AM

          Ok girls.... I'm sorry I just have to vent for a moment.... Up until today I was under the impression everyone was on board with our DW. Well, my FI family (mainly his mothers side of the family) are canceling left and right and his mother is really taking it personally bc the people canceling are her siblings (my FI's aunts/uncles). So she says to me "I really wish you were just getting married here!" WHAT??? ummm...im sorry.... you're mad at ME that YOUR family is canceling?? the kicker is that NOONE else lives in NC on my side or my FI's side except us and my soon to be inlaws. point being- people would have to travel either way!!! oh that just rubbed me the wrong way and really pissed me off!! anyone out there that can relate??

          Yes I can. I was getting the same thing from my MIL. She had asked why did I have to do Mexico. Why not DR because that's where they are from. So you'd travel there but not to Mexico? She kept bringing up different resorts like I was going to change it or something. My FIL pretty much came to my defense, he said to her just let them be, it's their wedding let them do it where they want to do it. Very aggravating!!! Can totally relate. I'm still dealing with the comments here and there. But just hang in there just remember its your day and about celebrating your union.

          #16015 Lyman

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            Posted 09 February 2013 - 11:09 AM

            Emotions can run high during such an important family event, and Jess878 offers great advice about staying true to yourselves and what your preferences are, and what works for your wedding celebration! 

            It will all work out for the best all around, you'll see :) Enjoy your BIg Day and wonderful life journey ahead.......Cheers !



            #16016 MK0386

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              Posted 10 February 2013 - 06:39 AM

              Yes I can. I was getting the same thing from my MIL. She had asked why did I have to do Mexico. Why not DR because that's where they are from. So you'd travel there but not to Mexico? She kept bringing up different resorts like I was going to change it or something. My FIL pretty much came to my defense, he said to her just let them be, it's their wedding let them do it where they want to do it. Very aggravating!!! Can totally relate. I'm still dealing with the comments here and there. But just hang in there just remember its your day and about celebrating your union.

              Thank you for responding and understanding! You are so right... This is. OUR day. We totally feel that way and have not taken any "declines" or "cancels" personally. Thanks for the positive words! And... Same to you! Just enjoy planning your day and don't worry about your MIL :)

              #16017 MK0386

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                Posted 10 February 2013 - 06:41 AM

                Emotions can run high during such an important family event, and Jess878 offers great advice about staying true to yourselves and what your preferences are, and what works for your wedding celebration!  It will all work out for the best all around, you'll see :) Enjoy your BIg Day and wonderful life journey ahead.......Cheers !

                Thank you!!!

                #16018 normas09

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                  Posted 10 February 2013 - 10:15 AM

                  Thanks, RachelTX.

                   

                  I've heard that sometimes you could do both...the legal plus the catholic ceremony. Am I wrong? why couldn't you do both. I am so confused. :(



                  #16019 normas09

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                    Posted 10 February 2013 - 02:19 PM

                    vlivins! 

                     

                    What a great and original idea. Thanks for sharing!



                    #16020 MK0386

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                      Posted 10 February 2013 - 02:52 PM

                      Thanks, RachelTX. I've heard that sometimes you could do both...the legal plus the catholic ceremony. Am I wrong? why couldn't you do both. I am so confused. :(

                      I have to say, I have also recently been going nuts over the ceremony. We are having a legal ceremony but I am so not ok with the required script for that. Not only does it not include vows of ring exchange but there's no religious part to it whatsoever. Then l saw through the lomas sight that you can have a minister for $500. I'm already paying for the judge... I just want to have a legal ceremony but with a script that is nice- not the awful one they say is required.




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