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Renee, I have no idea what this is!
I've seen this thread... I THINK, it's where anyone using a starfish theme that has already been a bride passes their starfish onto B2B's for their wedding and it keeps going. Once that B2B get's married she then passes it along to another future Mrs. I think it's a super adorable idea :)

I would totally be doing it if my wedding were at all beach themed because I LOVE starfish... I decided to be weird and do the total opposite of beach themed :) Vintage inspired tree's and birds :) bunny_4.gif

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Wow! how weird!

glad you're ok about it tho - bizarre as you say they both happened on our 5 month mark! must be something in the water lol

thanks to everyone else as well for all your advice and support. I'm feeling more emotional about it today, but also reflective as the anger and shock is wearing off.

I don't want to lose her as a friend, so if it's just that she can't come to mexico that's fine - annoying, but we'll deal with it and we've got to be understanding about it...we're asking people to pay a lot of money to come. it's just the rest of the stuff that was in the text that we need to work out (if she wants to work it out). we'll see what happens next!
Yeah your situation is ENTIRELY different than mine and I'm sad to hear that it's affecting you more today. A heart to heart with her in person is needed, just be understanding to the financial burden and tell her how you feel and you don't want to lose her as a friend.

I hope it all works out for the best hun! XOXO

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Oh I love the Starfish idea. Adorable.

 

I am not doing a theme - I couldn't pick one. I'm a Libra and too indecisive!

 

I love your vintage theme Amy! I think it'll be really classy at the AS!

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AmyBermuda - LOL!! OMG, my FI is a Libra (so I ABSOLUTELY love them) and his common response to most wedding option questions is normally, "I don't know", "whatever you want baby" or "sure" to multiple choice options.

 

So trust me, I understand! I'm a Cancer so I'm very picky and specific, planner and a worrier - total opposite, he keeps me from going nutty!

 

Curious Amy, what's your FI's sign?

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That's so funny!!! Yeah I prefer to have other people make decisions for me. I love love love love having a destination wedding where the wedding cake options were just chocolate or vanilla.

 

My FI is a Gemini. Also an air sign. He fits it perfectly. Talkative, goes with the flow but can change his mind on a whim, and never follows through. haha

 

I guess Virgo and Cancer are similar signs then Amy & Katie!

 

Thats kinda nice, Amy, that your FI has someone to make the decisions. Mine is as wishy washy & "whatever" as me!

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I'm a cancer too! I have been driving my fiance nuts about the whole wedding. He was super excited when I found this forum so I would quit hassling him about every little detail :) I can't help it--I'm a planner and major worrier, teehee.

 

Yeah, I thought the starfish idea was really cute, but I think it would stress me out trying to make sure I got the starfish mailed back in time, etc. Just curious if anyone had any experience with it.

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Katie - my Maid of Honor is a Virgo, very smart and very popular, my dad was a Virgo too, I really love them!

 

Renee - How funny! Lindsay (TheFutureMrsLutz) is also a Cancer :) Whenever I get overly stressed, I try and remind myself that I worry too much and I'm probably just over-worrying once again. I'm big into details which are difficult and a MAJOR planner, I've been planning my wedding for nearly 2 years (in February it will be)

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Katie - my Maid of Honor is a Virgo, very smart and very popular, my dad was a Virgo too, I really love them!

 

Renee - How funny! Lindsay (TheFutureMrsLutz) is also a Cancer :) Whenever I get overly stressed, I try and remind myself that I worry too much and I'm probably just over-worrying once again. I'm big into details which are difficult and a MAJOR planner, I've been planning my wedding for nearly 2 years (in February it will be)

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2 years of planning?! wow, I guess though I have been (secretly) planning our wedding for a while, lol. We were together for over three years before he proposed, so I already had the general ideas mapped out (such as the fact it HAD to be a destination wedding!) :)

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