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#1 meandpaul

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    Posted 16 June 2008 - 08:37 AM

    Well, in true Father's Day form, my daughter's dad acted like a pure butt-head. (trying to keep this rated PG)

    Since she is under 16 (she is 15) she has to have both of her parents conset to her getting her passport. Well, he has been giving us the run-around about when he can meet us at the post office. Our appointment was last Thursday and as expected, he didnt show. The lady at the post office gave me a consent form that he could sign and we could get notarized. He said he will not sign it.

    Jasmine will be 15 on 8/14 and we leave on 8/30. There should be enough time to get her passport done with expedited service, but it is just the frustration of it. I guess he is thinking that if she can't go, I will not go.

    He is such a jerk. Thanks for letting me vent.

    #2 boscobel

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      Posted 16 June 2008 - 08:48 AM

      Wow, Shandra, that really sucks. I am not sure if 2 weeks will be enough time though! Is there anyway to get him to agree? What about getting his mom involoved? If you have a good relationship with her, she might be able to get him to be reasonable. So sorry that he is putting you thru the wringer.

      #3 becks

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      Posted 16 June 2008 - 08:49 AM

      That is just gross. What the F is his problem

      I hate it when people are mean out of spite.

      We should come up with some way to let him know that we appreciate his a**hole-ness. Like order some gay porn magazine and have it sent to his house.

      What a total JERK!

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      #4 tvt

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        Posted 16 June 2008 - 08:50 AM

        wow that sucks! i agree with Carly, maybe getting his family involved would be a good option.

        #5 meandpaul

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          Posted 16 June 2008 - 08:57 AM

          Quote:
          Originally Posted by becks
          That is just gross. What the F is his problem

          I hate it when people are mean out of spite.

          We should come up with some way to let him know that we appreciate his a**hole-ness. Like order some gay porn magazine and have it sent to his house.

          What a total JERK!
          ROFL - me likey this idea (now, to remember his street number....)

          Carly - I will try to get in touch with his mom. She has been in and out of a nursing home but maybe she is still there and I can stop by to see her. She is not very influential in his life (he is a selfish prick who cares about no one but himself) but maybe she can get through to him.

          Thanks.

          #6 Christine

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          Posted 16 June 2008 - 09:15 AM

          Shandra I am so sorry this is really irritating, he obviously has issues with you moving on and being happy. Its too bad he puts his child in the middle of things. My parents always tried not to put me in the middle, but my dad managed to a few times.
          I would also suggest possibly getting a lawyer involved if needed.
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          #7 Jenn3878

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            Posted 16 June 2008 - 09:52 AM

            I am sorry to hear this Shandra! I hope that he wakes up!! Good Luck!

            #8 Copita

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              Posted 16 June 2008 - 09:55 AM

              Shandra,

              I am very sorry to hear this. He sounds like a complete jackass and it's obvious he is jealous/mad that you have moved on and are getting married and is doing it to spite you.
              He shouldn't be taking it out on your daughter though.
              Don't worry. Everything will work out.

              #9 hollisandsteph

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                Posted 16 June 2008 - 10:06 AM

                If it helps at all, we did not pay the extra for our and we got it back in 6 days! Just an FYI.

                #10 Hartyt509

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                  Posted 16 June 2008 - 01:52 PM

                  How about getting some massive football players to grab him and pin him down until he signs while beating the crap out of him lol

                  Nor practical but when I think of my ex I always want to do it and it makes me smile lol




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