Our entire wedding party has dumped us :o(
Posted 10 June 2008 - 11:21 PM
The best man and his gf are buying a house and don't think they can afford to come. At least he had the balls to come straight out and say it.
So FI calls the other groomsman and wants to know for sure if he's coming. He's kinda dodged around the issue. Groomsman said there's a 15% chance he's coming!!! He's going to another friend's wedding in Vegas in October. Not standing in that one though!
And my sister, my MOH, just broke up w/ her bf, also the father of her kid, and is trying to rake up money to come, but is having a hard time doing so.
Both sets of parents have dropped out unless we pay for them to come.
F*&% gad, this totally sucks. We've now called off our DW because only 4 people for sure can go. And we think that those people will back out at the last minute anyways (they do that with all other things we plan).
I gotta get new friends!
Pass that bottle of wine over here please.
Posted 10 June 2008 - 11:24 PM
Posted 10 June 2008 - 11:26 PM
Posted 10 June 2008 - 11:32 PM
It's better you are finding out early though...I say go elope too. It will be wonderful!
Posted 10 June 2008 - 11:36 PM
Posted 10 June 2008 - 11:37 PM
While some of the things are understandably part of life, seriously. And the parents not coming? So crappy
Maybe they'll change their minds in the end?
We had problems (and still do) with FI's family but his parents and grandmother are now coming.
All this to say that we had issues and still do and re-evaluated. Look at your FI and ask him (and yourself): Do you want to get married in DR on a beach? If that's what you really want, then go ahead with it or you'll regret it. You can't let others dictate your special day.
They'll come around and if they don't, then you can have an AHR and involve them there.
Sorry you're going through this.
Posted 10 June 2008 - 11:38 PM
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