Posted 06 June 2008 - 08:54 AM
Well, ever since I sent out the save the date, months ago, she has been seemingly avoiding me. It's the weirdest thing. I will call her or invite her out and she won't even respond to me. It's SO bizarre. Then I of course, sent her the invitation to the wedding, and no RSVP, nada. Two weeks ago I emailed her, asking her to please give me a heads up cause I need a final head count, now that I'm just days away and need to get a list to my wedding coordinator, and she HASN'T EVEN RESPONDED.
I guess I'm just upset that she's completely blown me off. I can understand if she can't come, but why the blow off. I have other friends that told me straight up they're not coming. I appreciate honesty. But why this fuckery? This avoiding people? I absolutely abhor when people blow me off. It is so beyond rude!
Why do you guys these this is/why she's doing this?
I would never do this to her.
Posted 06 June 2008 - 08:58 AM
I think it all boils down to the fact that they feel guilty and don't know how to deal with it.
Posted 06 June 2008 - 09:35 AM
Posted 06 June 2008 - 09:51 AM
But on a side note, lol, I am totally going to have to start using this phrase!
| Originally Posted by cmmdee |
But why this fuckery?
Posted 06 June 2008 - 10:55 AM
Second, your "friend" sucks. Could she be jealous? Could she be embarrassed she cant afford it after all of her talking about it? Who knows but the fact of the matter is she is being immature and rude. Unfortunately she has put you in a position that you need to confront her on it and thats not fair to you. I would just call her and sounds like you will get her voicemail but say you dont know why she is acting like this you thought you were great friends and at this point you just need to know if she is coming or not. So sorry your "friend" is being a poop!
Posted 06 June 2008 - 10:58 AM
BTW, love the work fuckery!
Posted 06 June 2008 - 12:11 PM
Posted 06 June 2008 - 12:18 PM
My BM did the same exact thing to me, backed out less than a month before the wedding.
You just have to be the bigger person and be comfortable knowing that those who truly want to be there will find a way to get there.
I agree that I think it is a combination of gulit and embarrassment and she doesn't know how to deal with it. Then, I'm thinking in her head she is trying to turn it around on me, like it's my fault for having such an expensive wedding. Then, the avoidance goes on for so long, that they don't know how to start talking to you again.
Posted 06 June 2008 - 02:32 PM
Just don't contact her and see what happens she'll come crawling back mine has started to but I'm ignoring her because I'm a child lmao
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