Posted 01 June 2008 - 11:57 AM
I don't think you should take back your invitation for her to be your MOH, just let her know that your decision has been made and you hope that she finds a way to make it to Jamaica!
Posted 01 June 2008 - 12:01 PM
Tell her that you are getting married at ROR. If she can't make it, you understand but there shouldn't be any other discussion beyond that. It's your and your fiances top priority to get married at ROR and it's a bonus if others can join you. Remind her that it's not about her.
Posted 01 June 2008 - 12:12 PM
Posted 01 June 2008 - 01:21 PM
Part of me doesnt even want her to come anymore, why can't she be like my other friends who are super excited? Oh, and did I point out, my friend still lives at home with her parents and that daddy would be paying for her whole trip?? Not sure what all the fuss is about......... UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted 01 June 2008 - 04:17 PM
| Originally Posted by adias.angel |
If her only problem is price and the fact she seems internet savy, give her the option of staying a different place in Jamaica, finding her own flights, etc. That way she can afford it and you still have your MOH....
Posted 01 June 2008 - 04:29 PM
Posted 01 June 2008 - 05:53 PM
Posted 01 June 2008 - 06:11 PM
Posted 01 June 2008 - 06:22 PM
sorry to be the bearer of bad news here, but your friend is a bitch!
she has no right to tell you what to do or where to have your wedding. if she thinks jamaica is too pricey thats tough shit! you need to stand up to her and tell her "while i appreciate your opinions, my FI and i have chosen to get married in jamaica. if you are not able to join us, we'll be sad, but we'll understand." you need to give her a gracious opportunity to exit your wedding party. she has some serious balls trying to come back to you with different dates and places... whose wedding is it anyway
listen, you are not the first, nor are you the last to lose a MOH or a bridesmaid around here. trust me when i say it is not worth the stress she is going to cause you if you keep her in the wedding party. the planning process needs to be as stress-free as possible when it comes to things you can control. if she is causing you stress, cut her loose.
Posted 01 June 2008 - 07:53 PM
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