Posted 04 February 2007 - 09:51 PM
Posted 05 February 2007 - 01:05 PM
| Originally Posted by jillhigginsphotography |
I would either:
a) Try my best to not tell them about plans for spending money.
Try to figure out where they are coming from. It sounds like maybe they may have had a hard time with money and maybe they don't want to see you go down that path. Or...maybe someone else has not been financially responsible and then relied on the them (the parents) to bail them out. I know it's not really their business as long as the two of you are not being a burden on them, but maybe you could reassure them that you are indeed being financially responsible and not burning up the credit cards, etc.
Posted 05 February 2007 - 01:15 PM
Posted 05 February 2007 - 04:43 PM
And, I can relate to your concerns and feelings. My FFIL complains about everything and if he had it his way, he would control everything in our lives. So, I feel your frustration and my heart goes out to you. I've learned through my experience, to keep things between me and my FI. We'll vent to each other, but in terms of his dad's opinion and advice, we just listen then do what we want anyway. It makes it a lot easier. .....in one ear and out the other, as they say.
Posted 06 February 2007 - 10:00 PM
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Posted 17 February 2007 - 02:17 AM
I do feel your pain, believe me!
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