Waiting for results...
Posted 28 May 2008 - 10:47 PM
This is weird, but I guess this is the perfect place to vent/air this:
FI finally went to get his 'sperm count' done, to see if he's able to have kids and we're waiting on the results.
The background to this is that he was married before and his ex didn't want kids, so he got fixed. Then as soon as they separated, he had a reversal vasectomy. There were maybe 5 years between the two surgeries and it's been another 3 years (approximately) since the reversal.
I've done a bit of reading and know that there is a huge possibility that it wasn't successful. Even when it is, sometimes scar tissue can re-form and the tubes can close up. What if he was fertile and then over the past 3 years it's closed up?
We both really want to have kids and are excited about trying to get pregnant after the wedding.
I love him and we are both sure that we'll do anything it takes to have kids if it's not possible to do it naturally.
Nonetheless I'm nervous and on edge about this IT's been over a week. I think we're waiting for a letter in the mail.
I need a hug
Has anyone else been through this?
Posted 28 May 2008 - 11:25 PM
Posted 29 May 2008 - 12:20 AM
Posted 29 May 2008 - 07:41 AM
Lots of big hugs, too!
Happily married since 2008
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Posted 29 May 2008 - 08:20 AM
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