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Hi everyone :o)

My name is Allyson and I have just started the planning process for a May 2009 wedding. My F/H and I are still undecided as to where we are going for our wedding, but I am hoping to get lots of info on this site. We are currently considering Jamaica or maybe even Aruba!! Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Allyson
We are going to Jamaica..if you want any info, just give me a shout.
I have also been to Punta Cana, Holguin and Acapulco...if you want info on any of these.
Happy Planning and enjoy the site!
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Welcome to the forum, Allyson!

 

Congrats on beginning your hunt for a COUNTRY and then venue wink.gif It's fun, but can be frustrating at times. It's even better when you've decided!

 

Can't wait to hear about your venue once you've picked one!

 

Andrea

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Hi,

 

I am Chay, can be called as "undecided bride".

I am getting married this January 30, 2013. I am happy with my partner and I do love him so much.

The thing is, I am 3 months pregnant. Yes we are planning to marry, but then my parents took the SOONEST date of the wedding,

At times, I got excited but there are ALWAYS times for confusion. Because it's not me who decides, I come up with second thoughts.

I ask God for help, He gave me signs, still I can't make up my mind. Too confused and too distracted. 

 

The reasons behind my confusion:

first : my fiance is not responsible enough in having or building a family.

      I can even clearly see it to him. But then he is willing to do so.

second : we didn't plan this, our parents ONLY decides for what to do.

and lastly : I AM STILL NOT SURE OF MY SELF. Will I get into this life long relationship.

 

I may be pregnant, but is it an assurance to make a HUGE decision in life?

My parents protects for the name of my family, and I understand them. 

But how will I ever have a good marriage life if in the start it wasn't about us who decides?

Can someone give me some advice? 

 

Thanks,

Chay

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