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#21 Celina

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    Posted 28 May 2008 - 10:51 AM

    Hi there to my 2nd date twin!

    I am so sorry she bailed on you. Sometimes people dont know how to tell you things and find it easier to do it in writing versus face to face. It was probably very hard for her to do and she probably couldn't muster up the courage to do it face to face. I'm sure she probably just found it easier for her to say it this way. I know it hurts, but at least she told you now instead of waiting till the last minute or avoiding your calls altogether.

    I would let her go on and help plan your other wedding related events. If she wants to be involved in some way, it would be more damaging to your relationship with her to tell her no, than to let her do what she can. Who knows, maybe she'll get excited about it and reconsider once she sees how much she is missing out on.

    Take care!
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    #22 jajajaja

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      Posted 28 May 2008 - 12:08 PM

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      oh I am so sorry, that really sucks. People have no idea how much emotion goes into a wedding, that is until its their wedding.
      Ditto. I'm really late on this, but I'm so sorry. What a crappy way to break news like that. Obviously, she was scared to talk to you because she knew she was doing wrong. I hate when people don't even have teh decency to step up to the plate. I'm so sorry for all the added stress. You totally don't need that!
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      #23 ErinB

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        Posted 28 May 2008 - 12:14 PM

        I am really sorry about your MOH. People just kind a suck!

        I too have have a BM back out this week. We leave in 3 weeks.

        I think we need little "My MOH/BM backed out" badges like the Biggest Loser badges!

        Be strong and you'll get through it!

        #24 Yari

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          Posted 28 May 2008 - 02:05 PM

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          I think we need little "My MOH/BM backed out" badges like the Biggest Loser badges!
          What a great idea!

          #25 monicaswave

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            Posted 28 May 2008 - 02:09 PM

            That sucks! I agree how email was not the best way to communicate news like that. The good thing is that it seems like you still have enough time to figure something out.

            #26 jajajaja

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              Posted 28 May 2008 - 02:14 PM

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              I think we need little "My MOH/BM backed out" badges like the Biggest Loser badges!
              LOL I would love to see these. It seems to be a VERY common problem.
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              #27 twinkletoes

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                Posted 28 May 2008 - 02:37 PM

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                LOL I would love to see these. It seems to be a VERY common problem.
                Ditto, sign me up for 1, lol
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                #28 Hartyt509

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                  Posted 28 May 2008 - 05:58 PM

                  Does it count if I sacked mine lmao I think it does so I want one 2 lol

                  #29 SummerBeachBum

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                    Posted 28 May 2008 - 08:21 PM

                    It seems that the MOH bad bug is going around this season. Hope everything works out!

                    #30 twinkletoes

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                      Posted 29 May 2008 - 10:08 AM

                      Ok, here's my attempt at the MOH/BM badge. Sorry, this is my 1st time making one, so its not the best!
                      2 Hearts, 1 Love 08.08.08Punta Cana, D.R.




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