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#2751 cougs

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    Posted 18 April 2009 - 02:46 AM

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    Has anyone done the legal ceremony or know where I can get an idea of what it says?
    we are doing the legal ceremony and all i've gotten claudia to send me was the judge's speech (but not what the vows are or what is said for the exchange of rings ... you know, the important parts!!!!!!!!) ... i have emailed her *again* today to ask for the vows and the order of the ceremony ... i figure if i keep asking her in every way i can think of, eventually i've got to get an actual answer, right? LOL so frustrating! oh and she did confirm that you are allowed to add a sand ceremony and a reading, but the judge (apparently there's a new one they are dealing with) won't read those parts. you will have to get a friend or family member to read it.

    you can find the judge's speech here: http://bestdestinati....-31#post493856

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      Posted 18 April 2009 - 04:41 PM

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      Originally Posted by sunitam
      hi, im posting a copy of the SYMBOLIC non-legal wedding script that I recieved from Gaby:

      Wedding ministry

      1.- Scripture of Genesis “ And God created man on His own image ....Gen 1:27
      2.- Welcome words: We have come together, family and friends…..
      3.- Pray about the ceremony and for the couple
      4.- Brief sermon about love: 1Cor 13
      Love is patience love is kind, it does not envy,….
      5.- Response questions, to groom and to bride, do you come on your free will and with a consicious desire to be united in marriage with….?
      6.- Exchange of traditional vows: with groom and wife
      I___ take you ___ to be my wedded wife ,to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer in sickness and in health and forsaking all others I give myself only and always to you until death do us part
      And so with the bride…
      6.- Exchange of rings
      What token of love and fidelity do you have to seal the pact we are doing today?
      _____ receive this ring as a symbol of my life that I am giving you today and always, with this ring I thee wed
      and so the bride
      7.- Pronouncements: Because you ___ and ___ have exchange before us your promises of eternal love, and in our presence you have exchange symbols which make this pact visible
      I as a servant of the Living God pronounce you before The Father, Jesus Christ the Holy Spirit and the community as husband and wife.
      So you are no more two but only one, what God had joined together let no man separate.
      Congratulations!!! You may kiss your Bride.

      Let me introduce you for the first time Mr. & Mrs. ________________



      after reading it, i decided we would write our own vows..its kinda too religious for me, plus i think its much more beautiful saying whats in your heart to your new hubby!

      Does the sand ceremony come after this? I am confused where it goes??

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        Posted 18 April 2009 - 10:19 PM

        I think everyone is confused where the Sand ceremony comes in at. I think it's after the rings, but before "You may now kiss the bride" LOL
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          Posted 18 April 2009 - 11:05 PM

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          I think everyone is confused where the Sand ceremony comes in at. I think it's after the rings, but before "You may now kiss the bride" LOL
          Same here, so confusing... so do they read those script first, then the sand ceremony script, and then 'kiss the bride'?

          Does anyone know if I need to provide sand ceremony script to them or they have it?

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            Posted 19 April 2009 - 10:18 AM

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            why don't you post those menus and pricing as an attachment so you don't have to PM it to *everyone* LOL! we are greedy lil buggers, aren't we? every time we see or hear of something new, we all HAVE TO HAVE IT! LMAO

            i made my wedding hair appt (and one for my mom at the same time), and i've emailed to set the appt for our couple's massage for the day *after* the wedding ... i figured we'd NEED it then after all that partying ... i was sure to ask for late afternoon (3pm), LOL! also trying to find out from claudia if she'll let us do the buffet with 33 people (you're supposed to have 40). it's too hard to pick one thing for everyone when there are so many allergies, vegetarians, and just plain picky eaters. hopefully she'll let us so there's at least a choice to be had! i'll let you ladies know what she says.
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              Posted 19 April 2009 - 10:32 AM

              I don't know how to upload, or maybe I just don't have enough points. The private dinners range between $200 to $280, but if you have 10 or more rooms booked for your wedding party, you get a free additional package (Eternity Honeymoon Package) that includes the private dinner for two, a salt scrub or mini facial, two 25 minute tension relief massages, fresh flowers and fruit basket upon arrival and a champagne breakfast in bed the day after arrival. I wanted to choose of the platinum menu though since my FI is a picky eater, so I am paying the difference. It's $200 for the standard and $280 for the platinum so I will pay the .80. I thought it was worth it...nice, romantic surprise after we're married. You can have the dinner set up on the pier or at one of the two tiki huts on the grounds. The WC sent me some pics too and it looks really nice!

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                Posted 19 April 2009 - 10:48 AM

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                Originally Posted by mummergirl
                we are doing the legal ceremony and all i've gotten claudia to send me was the judge's speech (but not what the vows are or what is said for the exchange of rings ... you know, the important parts!!!!!!!!) ... i have emailed her *again* today to ask for the vows and the order of the ceremony ... i figure if i keep asking her in every way i can think of, eventually i've got to get an actual answer, right? LOL so frustrating! oh and she did confirm that you are allowed to add a sand ceremony and a reading, but the judge (apparently there's a new one they are dealing with) won't read those parts. you will have to get a friend or family member to read it.

                you can find the judge's speech here: http://bestdestinati....-31#post493856
                Thanks, but this just links back to this same thread, and I did not see a judge's speech. Please let me know if you get this from Claudia

                #2758 cougs

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                  Posted 19 April 2009 - 08:02 PM

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                  Originally Posted by destination
                  Thanks, but this just links back to this same thread, and I did not see a judge's speech. Please let me know if you get this from Claudia
                  when i click it, it links directly to the post (which is in this thread), post #1562 by cweigner5.

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                    Posted 19 April 2009 - 08:07 PM

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                    Does anyone know if I need to provide sand ceremony script to them or they have it?
                    they have one that they use, or you could use a different one but you'll take a chance on the officiant's english, lol. if you are doing a legal ceremony you need to have to provide your own reader because the judge will not do it. if you're having your own person read it, it can say whatever you want it to!

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                      Posted 20 April 2009 - 09:28 AM

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                      Originally Posted by mummergirl
                      they have one that they use, or you could use a different one but you'll take a chance on the officiant's english, lol. if you are doing a legal ceremony you need to have to provide your own reader because the judge will not do it. if you're having your own person read it, it can say whatever you want it to!
                      Thanks, I am having symbolic only, I guess I'll email Cecilia and see what she got.




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