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Finding the strength to continue to plan my wedding

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#21 vale

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    Posted 15 May 2008 - 11:23 AM

    So so sorry about your dad.

    #22 Yari

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      Posted 15 May 2008 - 11:27 AM

      Oh my you poor thing. Definitely take time to heal. I can't even imagine what you are feeling. Know that we are hear for you no matter what.

      #23 jajajaja

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        Posted 15 May 2008 - 11:39 AM

        Oh I am so sorry. My heart truly aches for you.

        I agree with most of the suggestions- take a break from planning. You have a long time to figure it out and in all honesty, I probably could have planned the whole thing in 3 months- most likely less.

        Return to the wedding plans once you have had time to grieve and heal. You know your dad will still be with you and he probably can't wait for Hawaii.
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        #24 Amy&Andy

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          Posted 15 May 2008 - 11:46 AM

          I am so so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine what pain you are going through right now. I hope you can take the time to heal and put the wedding planning aside to take care of yourself. Please let us know if there is anything you need! Once again, I'm so sorry for your loss, and will keep you in my thoughts.

          #25 DanielleNDerek

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            Posted 15 May 2008 - 11:49 AM

            I'm so sorry to hear about your father. That's awful. I can't imagine what your going through, losing a loved one so suddenly is terrible. Take a break from wedding planning. And maybe when your ready to start planning again, you can come up with a way to include the memory of your father in your wedding. It won't be the same as him being there of course, but it would be a great way to honor your dad. If you need any help with your planning, let me know. And i know every girl on here would definately help you out with whatever you need. We're here for you.
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            #26 marip123

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              Posted 15 May 2008 - 11:50 AM

              I am very sorry about your loss. I wish you and your family all the strength needed to get through this time.
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              #27 Saraha

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                Posted 15 May 2008 - 11:52 AM

                I am so unbelievabley sorry to hear this. I couldnt imagine the thought of losing a parent. They do say time does heal, although I am sure right now its hard for you to imagine that. Please let us know if there is anything any of is can od for you on here, big or little we are all here. I am so sorry for your loss. I am sure your father would have wanted you to have a beautiful amazing wedding, so if anything find strength through that.

                #28 Jackie

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                  Posted 15 May 2008 - 12:04 PM

                  That is so sad to here. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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                  #29 ErinB


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                    Posted 15 May 2008 - 12:36 PM

                    I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how horrible you feel right now. My thoughts and big hugs are with you!

                    I agree that you need to take some time off from planning. Lean on your FI and the rest of your family and get through this together.

                    When you do start to plan, remeber how excited your dad was and carry on with that energy, knowing he would want nothing less than the best for you. There are lots of ways to remember him in your ceremony if you choose to do so.

                    #30 Bride010101

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                      Posted 15 May 2008 - 12:38 PM

                      I am so sorry for your loss. Big hugs and know that we are all here for you.

                      I agree with everyone else's suggestions... take some time off to grieve and be with those you love. You have plenty of time for planning and we will all be here to help when your ready!

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