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#31 Alyssa

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    Posted 25 April 2008 - 08:08 AM

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    WTF!!!!!!!

    WHAT?!?!??!?!??!??! did i read that correctly?!?! your 18 yr old sister got married without any of your family there, to some guy who lives in a different state? you are gonna have to explain some more because i am hella confused!!!!

    ditto! what the hell is going on?

    #32 becks

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    Posted 25 April 2008 - 08:13 AM

    Oh wow Sarah. I... I simply don't know what to say. And for me to be speechless is unheard of.

    I simply cannot imagine why your sister would choose to do this. The damage it is going to cause in her future life is likely to be immense. I can only pray to whatever higher beings will listen that she isn't and doesn't get pregnant. She will come to her senses and hopefully will be able to walk away without having to bring a child into consideration.

    I'm sure your family is absolutely beside themselves. I can't even imagine. My little brother got married at 20 and, save for the child his ex-wife was carrying at the time, it was without a doubt the single biggest mistake of his life. The repercussions of that are still very real and very serious.

    You're in my thoughts and prayers, as are your sister and your family.

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    #33 Angel

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      Posted 25 April 2008 - 08:40 AM

      Wow that's crazy. Well, she just has to face the consequences later one. You make grown up decisions, you have to deal with the outcome. Man, there is so many other things she could be doing at her age. Hope she realizes that she made a big mistake sooner rather than later. You hang in there, she'll come around.

      #34 Copita

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        Posted 25 April 2008 - 08:58 AM

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        there really ought to be marriage laws preventing people under 21 from getting married. .
        LOOOOOOOOOOOL, Maura!!!!!!! So true!

        Sarah, this story is crazy!
        Maybe your sister did it because your parents and fam were so against the guy, you know? Kids/younger people always want to do what they can't so maybe she acted out in anger? It was a bad choice on her part and she is prob just realizing it now. It will all work out though.
        Aw, I feel bad for your Dad, but it's not his fault.

        #35 Saraha

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          Posted 25 April 2008 - 10:35 AM

          Yeah I really have no idea what in the hell she was thinking.... Damn this has been an awesome week LOL!
          Thanks for all your support ladies, your beyond wonderful!!!

          #36 BarefootBride

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            Posted 25 April 2008 - 10:46 AM

            Sarah, Young people can be stupid! Im sure we have all be there in different way. I think the one thing that we can really hope for is that your sister will be truly happy and this husband of hers wont end up as much of a loser as he has proven himself to be thus far. I work on a military base and I see LOTS of marriages that just dont make it. I hope everything works out for your sister.
            Its just sad that shes going to miss one of the best times in her life committed in marriage at such an early age! Heck, Im almost 30 and I sometimes wonder if Im too young!

            #37 angitalia23

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              Posted 25 April 2008 - 10:53 AM

              WOW....that's all I can say right now! That is a pretty crazy story!
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              #38 Saraha

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                Posted 25 April 2008 - 10:57 AM

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                Sarah, Young people can be stupid! Im sure we have all be there in different way. I think the one thing that we can really hope for is that your sister will be truly happy and this husband of hers wont end up as much of a loser as he has proven himself to be thus far. I work on a military base and I see LOTS of marriages that just dont make it. I hope everything works out for your sister.
                Its just sad that shes going to miss one of the best times in her life committed in marriage at such an early age! Heck, Im almost 30 and I sometimes wonder if Im too young!
                The funny thing about all this is that my parents always told us NEVER to marry young...

                Well I am the oldest and am 24 and am the last to get married LOL!!!

                But mind you my other sister (Jenny, not Shelby) is 14 months younger than I but far more mature LOL. She married someone who was 30 at the time so were more than ready to get married!

                Poor parents!

                #39 Kristy!

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                  Posted 25 April 2008 - 11:07 AM

                  Sarah, I'm so sorry. That situation just sucks. Hang in there!

                  #40 beachbride08

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                    Posted 25 April 2008 - 11:17 AM

                    That is crazy!!
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