Are you and your fiance waiting to consumate...
Posted 25 April 2008 - 07:53 PM
I hope its OK for a guy to chime in here, but I thought that you should all know that some of us guys have waited as well. Both my wife and I were each others first and our wedding night was our first time together. As most of you have said, it is a personal choice for everyone, but I am so glad that I waited. Best wishes to all of you.
Posted 28 April 2008 - 10:15 PM
My fiance and I also decided to wait until we're married before we "did it". It's been a rough 2 1/2 years on me but she is worth waiting for. Now that we're engaged it's been especially hard, but we're determined to make it till the wedding in Sept
We're especially glad because it will be a good testimony to our kids when we can honestly tell them that we waited, and it was worth it. Though, dad will have to admit to having been around the block a few times before meeting mom.
Posted 28 April 2008 - 10:45 PM
19 June 2008
Posted 28 April 2008 - 11:54 PM
Posted 29 April 2008 - 12:10 AM
| Originally Posted by Mel |
Kudos to you guys that can hold out. I made sure he was the right one and I haven't been with anyone else. No way in heck we could even hold out the 35 days to our wedding. We said no sex the day before...hmmm wonder if that will even work?! I think it would be impossible to not do something since we live together and have for the past 3 years.
That is why I am with the rest of you and support all of you who are waiting- what a special day that will be for you!
but for me- there is no turning back now!
It was actually funny my mom mentioned that they are getting a larger room so that I can stay with them the night prior since I can't see Chris the night before.... I was like aw damn! This isn't a traditonal wedding! LOL-- I guess it is because we never see anyone anyhow- so thinking that we will have a week alone makes me sad that i can't be with him one of those nights!
But good for you ladies! Can't wait to read this thread after the weddings! LOL! Should be juicy!
Posted 29 April 2008 - 12:54 AM
Posted 21 May 2010 - 12:43 AM
Posted 21 May 2010 - 06:44 AM
| Originally Posted by Kristy! |
You're probably going to think I'm nuts, but I've never been with anyone. I've always wanted to wait till my wedding night for my first time. So you're definitely not alone!
Posted 21 May 2010 - 10:25 AM
Posted 21 May 2010 - 10:33 AM
| Originally Posted by beckyandbrian |
We were together the night we got engaged and then we decided (mostly I decided and he agreed) to wait again until our wedding night.
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