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#31 Maura


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Posted 19 April 2008 - 10:24 AM

Originally Posted by starfish kate
Now I don't know about tomorrow, but I know I'll have fun anyway. But I'm starting to get annoyed. He does things like this to get me though. Yeah, really funny Mike, really funny.
kate, did you see the office on thursday night? jim pretends to bend down like hes going to propose to pam and then ties his shoe and says something like "oh you thought i was gonna....."

i totally thought of you! just relax and remember, he loves you and he plans to do it. he will wait until you arent expecting it!

#32 StephanieMN

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    Posted 19 April 2008 - 10:25 AM

    Hope it all happens for you.

    Wishing you bling, wishing you bling, wishing you bling!

    #33 Kat81

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      Posted 19 April 2008 - 10:34 AM

      I can't wait to hear back from you tomorrow!

      #34 Bride010101

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        Posted 19 April 2008 - 10:43 AM

        So excited to hear how everything goes. Sending some happy BDW vibes your way. : )

        #35 Sherry

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          Posted 19 April 2008 - 10:52 AM

          I totally ruined so many very special times thinking that my FI was going to do it, and then when he didn't, as much as I wanted to be cool about it, I'd end up being sad and then eventually mad at him. I ruined 2 Christmases, 2 trips to Europe and one of my birthdays that way. I always thought he was acting weird and that he was totally going to do it, but looking back, I was so projecting what I hoped he was doing! Finally, one of my friends sat me down and told me that I was pushing it away from me by fixating on it so much. She had done the same thing with her husband before they got engaged, and someone had the same talk with her. She pointed out that I was ruining the whole thing the way I was acting, and that it would be so much more special if I just let go, stopped thinking about it (very hard!) and let it happen when it happened. I ended up having a huge talk with my FI and apologized for the way I'd been acting and the pressure he'd obviously been feeling. I promised him that I wouldn't bring up the subject again until we were engaged. He was visibly relieved! It was so hard at first, but I did stop thinking about it. I figured it would be months and months before he proposed, maybe even a year. Then, maybe a month after we had this talk, he proposed on Valentine's day, and totally shocked me! I had NO IDEA it was coming, and it was so special. I'm now firmly of the view that as soon as you let go of the pressure, it happens so easily and so naturally and it's so special. Have a great time tomorrow, and if it happens, yay! If it doesn't, it will when it's right.

          #36 vale

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            Posted 19 April 2008 - 04:56 PM

            So excited for you, i'll keep fingers and anything else that can be crossed, crossed :-)

            #37 jean-marcus

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              Posted 19 April 2008 - 10:26 PM

              you women STOP taking the joy out of our proposal planning.. i know a lot of men get excited about the proposal and its really the one thing that we really get to plan ourselves in this marriage thing because as soon as we ask the question you take over the reigns hahaha

              stop thinking about when and just enjoy the suprise of when it does happen..

              PS i hope you're right though cause it does sound nice to propose on the cape :)

              #38 becks



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                Posted 20 April 2008 - 08:11 AM

                Okay, it's Sunday... we all need to keep our fingers crossed for Kate!

                And Kate - if it happens send someone a text or something so we can know!

                Fingers crossed... fingers crossed!!!

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                #39 starfish kate

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                  Posted 20 April 2008 - 08:33 AM

                  For the record, he has no idea that I suspect anything so I'm not ruining it for him. :) I know better than to let him know if I have any sort of suspicion.

                  I'm going into today not expecting anything, but it's hard since he's been doing weird things. I'll let you all know either way tonight or tomorrow morning.


                  #40 MsShelley


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                    Posted 20 April 2008 - 08:57 AM

                    you know we had better hear something from you tonight!! lol

                    Have fun and good luck!

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