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Reasons I regret asking my sister to be my MOH (LONG vent)


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#61 Bride010101

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    Posted 11 April 2008 - 05:37 PM

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    Originally Posted by Nrvsbride
    I love this idea, its perfect! You avoid drama at all costs (I'm a huge fan of that, I hate confrontations). You will keep peace with your family and get the support you deserve! YAY!
    Exactly my thought! Congrats on a great solution.

    #62 Yvette

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      Posted 11 April 2008 - 05:40 PM

      I totally agree! I don't think you are asking too much out of her. If she didn't want the responsibility she shouldn't have said yes in the first place. I say if you want to demote her, do it! No need to stress about it.


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      So sorry you are going through all this now Maura. She really sounds like a immature brat. If I were you, I would demote her. If she decides to participate she can be a plain BM. You deserve to have a great MOH, not someone who can't even commit to coming.


      #63 LadyCheese

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        Posted 11 April 2008 - 08:25 PM

        I'm so late on this thread...when I read that IM, my jaw dropped...I cant believe the lack of support your sister (and family) has shown...and I sympathize with you bc Ive been dealing with similar issues in a way. However, it looks like the other ladies have helped you make a decision on how to handle your sisten and I totally agree with the "matron of honor" idea!! best of luck Maura...I really hope this will be the end of the family drama. :)

        #64 kr3611

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          Posted 11 April 2008 - 09:30 PM

          That's rough. We've encountered a similar family situation..just try to remember what's really important - you and him. As for your sister, you can't change her but you can change your reaction to her. Could you just have her as a bridesmaid or ask one of your other bridesmaids to be a backup MOH for you?

          #65 becks

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          Posted 12 April 2008 - 08:38 AM

          Maura - sheer genius!!! Love the Matron of Honor role for your BF!!!!

          Excellent!!!!

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