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Reasons I regret asking my sister to be my MOH (LONG vent)

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#61 Bride010101

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    Posted 11 April 2008 - 05:37 PM

    Originally Posted by Nrvsbride
    I love this idea, its perfect! You avoid drama at all costs (I'm a huge fan of that, I hate confrontations). You will keep peace with your family and get the support you deserve! YAY!
    Exactly my thought! Congrats on a great solution.

    #62 Yvette

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      Posted 11 April 2008 - 05:40 PM

      I totally agree! I don't think you are asking too much out of her. If she didn't want the responsibility she shouldn't have said yes in the first place. I say if you want to demote her, do it! No need to stress about it.

      Originally Posted by FutureMrsB
      So sorry you are going through all this now Maura. She really sounds like a immature brat. If I were you, I would demote her. If she decides to participate she can be a plain BM. You deserve to have a great MOH, not someone who can't even commit to coming.

      #63 LadyCheese

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        Posted 11 April 2008 - 08:25 PM

        I'm so late on this thread...when I read that IM, my jaw dropped...I cant believe the lack of support your sister (and family) has shown...and I sympathize with you bc Ive been dealing with similar issues in a way. However, it looks like the other ladies have helped you make a decision on how to handle your sisten and I totally agree with the "matron of honor" idea!! best of luck Maura...I really hope this will be the end of the family drama. :)

        #64 kr3611

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          Posted 11 April 2008 - 09:30 PM

          That's rough. We've encountered a similar family situation..just try to remember what's really important - you and him. As for your sister, you can't change her but you can change your reaction to her. Could you just have her as a bridesmaid or ask one of your other bridesmaids to be a backup MOH for you?

          #65 becks



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            Posted 12 April 2008 - 08:38 AM

            Maura - sheer genius!!! Love the Matron of Honor role for your BF!!!!


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