Future sis-in-law driving me crazy!!
Posted 09 April 2008 - 12:29 AM
Uhh, who said that I didn't invite them?! They are not going, therefore I'm not sending them invites!! I'm sure by now she told her mom and her mom is going to turn around and judge the situation (and not to my favor). My mom and I are making my invites and do not feel like making 200 invites for his family that 1) haven't talked to my FI in years and 2) are for sure not going to the wedding!
Both our families are traditional Mexicans and a destination wedding is unheard of. But, my parents understand and support everything we are doing because they know it makes us happy. His family just judges us because we aren't doing everything their way when they got married or what the rest of the family does. Wait until they see the invites and see I didn't include RSVP cards (I'm having the guests RSVP through our website). They are really going to complain then!!
Thanks for listening to me vent!!
Posted 09 April 2008 - 12:33 AM
I swear sometimes family can be a PITA.
Posted 09 April 2008 - 12:37 AM
Thanks for leting me vent also Leslie.......
Posted 09 April 2008 - 10:11 AM
My only advice is to try and not let them get you down or change anything that you want for your wedding.......we had to learn this the hard way.
Posted 09 April 2008 - 11:46 AM
Posted 09 April 2008 - 11:50 AM
dont sweat it, you dont owe an invitation to someone who already told you they arent coming, and who isnt close with your FI anyway.
Posted 09 April 2008 - 11:57 AM
Harsh but I think its fair lol If she starts to give you crap just say look speak to me when you have something nice to say otherwise keep it shut.
Might seem harsh but its your day not theres and if you have to get snotty for them to get it - then do it better now than later.
Saying that you are probably nicer than me and won't want to upset them lol I just want to punch all their lights out lmao
Posted 09 April 2008 - 12:03 PM
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