Posted 07 April 2008 - 12:50 PM
She gave us the option to either a) have the dinner at the restaurant she has chosen or take the money.
I have a feeling that if we take the money...
Posted 07 April 2008 - 12:52 PM
Posted 07 April 2008 - 12:53 PM
If they're not an important part of the wedding (meaning they don't have a specific role to play that would need direction, etc) then they won't miss anything by not being there. I also can't imagine any of my friends or family being offended in the same situation.
Posted 07 April 2008 - 12:59 PM
Posted 07 April 2008 - 01:27 PM
| Originally Posted by StephanieMN |
Ohh that's tricky. What about inviting the bridal party to the dinner and inviting the other guests down after dinner for a cocktail? Kind of a meet and greet.
Posted 07 April 2008 - 01:30 PM
Posted 07 April 2008 - 02:03 PM
Posted 07 April 2008 - 02:09 PM
| Originally Posted by KellyandMatt08 |
I like the cocktails idea! Is this something that we would pay for or do we just mention that we are going 'here' for drinks afterwards and everyone is welcome to join us? I was thinking one of the local bars to go to.
that way it doesnt imply youre paying, and people shouldnt expect you to pay anyway.
we're doing the same deal, after the RD, telling guests we will be at the lobby bar or whatever having drinks, and theyre more than welcome to stop by to say hi before the big day
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