From BAD to WORSE (long)
Posted 03 April 2008 - 09:57 AM
Posted 03 April 2008 - 09:57 AM
As the girls have said though, I wouldn't worry about the BD stuff. Yes he was a stupid boy and broke the rules... but he will still be blown away when he sees the photos!
As for your mom, I hope things work out. You are in my thoughts!
Posted 03 April 2008 - 10:02 AM
| Originally Posted by Raeka |
Uh-oh That does sound terrible. That's alot to absorb too. Gosh I'm sorry to hear about your Mom. Hopefully you CAN help her with this. Please don't' assume the worst, be positive, she may still be able to be with you. I know it's easier said than done.
| Originally Posted by angitalia23 |
Britnney I am so sorry for what your going through. I would not even worry about the BD pics, maybe your FI really didnt see them. Were they in a box or kind of showing? Regardless, he knew that room was off limits for a reason (wedding suprises) so im assuming he respected that. Perhaps he took a glance but nothing more. Regardless, your pics were so fabulous even if he did see them..thats probably all he will be thinking about until he receives them- thats not that bad.
In regards to your mom...im so sorry to hear about her problem. I cant even imagine the worry and stress you must be feeling about this. I wish I could offer you some suggestions or advice but I have never personally experienced a problem like that. I just think you just have to support her in this hard time of need, listen to her and be prepared for the crappy times she will be experiencing. I would def. encourage some type of rehab or support group for her and I would rely on the help of your sibblings as well. Your mom has time to face her issues before your wedding and hopefully make some better changes along the way.
If you ever need support or help were here!
Posted 03 April 2008 - 10:13 AM
Posted 03 April 2008 - 10:18 AM
Posted 03 April 2008 - 10:22 AM
As far as the shoes and sexy stuff, make him wear them! Tell him that you have decided you have always wanted to see him dressed up like a chic so you got those for him to wear on your wedding night.
Posted 03 April 2008 - 10:25 AM
At least your FI only saw a few outfits. Dont worry, he will still be blown away by the pictures. Maybe he just thinks that is your honeymoon lingere :~) I'm sure he feels pretty bad. I second the buying a padlock idea or is there someone elses house you would feel comfortable keeping some of your stuff at?
Let us know how things work out with your mom.
Posted 03 April 2008 - 10:45 AM
About the FH. Maybe the little peek will have him all the more excited plus seeing you that upset will make him see how special and important this is too you making him all the more appreciative of what you are doing for him! Makes for a great honeymoon right??
Posted 03 April 2008 - 10:49 AM
This sounds like such a tough situation with your mom. Drug addiction is such a hard thing to break - I can't even imagine what you are going through right now. Just know you are in our thoughts and we will be thinking about you!
Posted 03 April 2008 - 11:12 AM
As for the BD stuff, you probably only got in a fight about it because you both are stressed out about the wedding so soon. Doug and I don't fight, and lately we've been snippity with each other a LOT. We're used to getting to spend a lot of time together, and the last 3 weeks we've both been working a ton of OT and not able to relax together as much. It makes us both grumpy But we talked about it and since we're both aware of our stress and not being to relax together as much lately, it helped a bunch to say it out loud. Now we both watch what or how we say something so we don't fight about it.
Both things will get better, keep your chin up! And talk to us, you know we're here for you!
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