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This morning I was running out of the house, and Pete asked me if he was allowed to go into my quilt room, because he needed to iron something. That room is OFF limits. My dress and all my boudoir stuff is in there. Well, apparently the only reason he asked was because he went in there and saw some stuff...my boudoir stuff. I only figured that out because he left the iron on. So now I feel like I've gone through all this effort, and the surprise is blown. We got in a HUGE fight about it....and we NEVER fight.

 

Then...I get a call from my brother telling me that my mom was arrested. All we know right now is where her car was and possession charges. Who knows what else. My brother said there is cocaine all over the seat of her car. I have no idea what's going on or how long she is going to be there. Chances are she will wither be in jail or rehab when my wedding gets here. I am so upset. I just don't even know what to say or do. I wish I could help her, but I can't. ANd the thought of getting married without my mom make me want to throw up.

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Uh-oh That does sound terrible. That's alot to absorb too. Gosh I'm sorry to hear about your Mom. Hopefully you CAN help her with this. Please don't' assume the worst, be positive, she may still be able to be with you. I know it's easier said than done.

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Britnney I am so sorry for what your going through. I would not even worry about the BD pics, maybe your FI really didnt see them. Were they in a box or kind of showing? Regardless, he knew that room was off limits for a reason (wedding suprises) so im assuming he respected that. Perhaps he took a glance but nothing more. Regardless, your pics were so fabulous even if he did see them..thats probably all he will be thinking about until he receives them- thats not that bad.

 

In regards to your mom...im so sorry to hear about her problem. I cant even imagine the worry and stress you must be feeling about this. I wish I could offer you some suggestions or advice but I have never personally experienced a problem like that. I just think you just have to support her in this hard time of need, listen to her and be prepared for the crappy times she will be experiencing. I would def. encourage some type of rehab or support group for her and I would rely on the help of your sibblings as well. Your mom has time to face her issues before your wedding and hopefully make some better changes along the way.

 

If you ever need support or help were here!

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OMG Brittney! I would be so worried about my mother! I mean forget the hubby issues! This is so sad.

I agree with Amanda, men are morons! Your BD stuff is better with you in it anyways! So dont tell him about the pictures. it will keep him wondering why in the hell his FI has lingerie in her quilting room? lol

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My gosh, I'm so sorry to hear things are not going good for you. I couldn't imagine having to go through that with my Mom. I've had family members in the past on drugs and it's just so unpleasant to have to go through. cry.gif It's just not fair for you to have to manage this right now. I'll pray for you that things start getting better. As far as your FI I bet he didn't see too much. Keep your head up.

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