1 less bridesmaid.. ugh!

[jean-marcus]

wow..... why is there ALWAYS such drama with the brides maids.. why do women have to be so catty and jealous always. women just need to learn from the groomsmen... 1. grab your flasks, 2. talk about the opposite sex, 3. walk down the aisle, 4. and then party at the reception, 5. AND NOT CAT FIGHT

 

they just gotta realize that not everyone cant be in the wedding party and sometimes you choose someone to be a BM or MH for a specific reason and that doesnt mean you like the others less. its not the end of the world ...

 

well dont let it ruin your day. cause i dont want it effecting you and making you stressed out for the photos. cause im not about to have a stressed out bride hehehe

[Alyssa]

that is so weird but made me laugh

[Betsy]

WTF? Sounds like you are handling it pretty well though! How awkward are they going to act next time you see them LOL!

[ErinB]

Jenny, you have a great attitude! At least it's one less gift to buy! LOL!

 

I was in a similar situation with a friend. She was really upset I didn't ask her to be a BM but we wanted to keep the BP small. Well now, she doesn't think she can afford to make it to the wedding! Some people will find anything to complain about!

 

You're handling it very well.

[JennyK]

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Originally Posted by jean-marcus wow..... why is there ALWAYS such drama with the brides maids.. why do women have to be so catty and jealous always. women just need to learn from the groomsmen... 1. grab your flasks, 2. talk about the opposite sex, 3. walk down the aisle, 4. and then party at the reception, 5. AND NOT CAT FIGHT they just gotta realize that not everyone cant be in the wedding party and sometimes you choose someone to be a BM or MH for a specific reason and that doesnt mean you like the others less. its not the end of the world ... well dont let it ruin your day. cause i dont want it effecting you and making you stressed out for the photos. cause im not about to have a stressed out bride hehehe

I know.. seriously! Ehh I won't let it bother me.. I was already starting to think I went BM crazy and asked more than I should have lol lol The best part is that I already started to buy things in 8's.. so now I get some gifts too hehehe

[stefnicole]

This just reaffirms my decision on not having a bridal party. Much less stress

[JennyK]

My BP has been wonderful so far and her not being in my wedding is fine.. made room for me to invite my young cousins (who's mom is already one of my BM) since I know she'd LOVE to be a part of it

[ACDCDCAC]

oh good jenny, that works out then!

[Copita]

Jenny,

 

I am sorry to hear about that. That is a really silly reason for her not to be in your wedding any longer but like you said, you can ask your cousin to be in it or just keep it the way it is! Everything always works out. Good luck!

[monicaswave]

Family can be funny sometimes. That sounds so ridiculous but it'll work out for the better for you. At least you heard this now and not later.