| Originally Posted by Adinu |
I totally understand what you mean. The funny thing is that I don't think that our FI's and husbands see us the way we see ourselves. We're way more critical than other people, and we focus on the little things, that otherwise would go unnoticed. I think that's why my FI and I argue about it, he doesn't understand why I don't think I'm attractive when he thinks that I am. I'm sure its the same for all of you girls. Your men find you irresistable and that's awesome! If only we could somehow see ourselves through their eyes
And I hate being one of those girls thats always saying their fat and gross and on and on and on when they arent obese or severly overweight. I know now not to say comments or anything about my body because it just sounds like Im one of those size 0 girls saying their fat for attention... I always get yelled at by my FI. But truthfully Im NOT comfortable in my body and never really have. And coming from someone who does have a good perception of their body (FI) then its hard for them to understand.... Of course they tink your sexy... But its hard for them to understand why you dont think you are.