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#11 ACDCDCAC

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Posted 28 March 2008 - 09:57 PM

I'm figuring it's pretty normal :) I would be freaking out! And as long as you still have the Yippee! feeling, I'm gonna go ahead and say you'll be fine!

#12 NYJen

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    Posted 28 March 2008 - 09:58 PM

    Thanks Ladies!!! That makes me feel better.

    I think a lot of my "anxiety" is that I'm mostly nervous about my guests. Here I am, asking all these people to fly down to Cabo (and mind you, most of our guests are not seasoned travelers.) I just want to make sure everyone gets down there ok, that the shuttle service is perfect, no ones bags get lost, etc.

    As for marrying Brendan, yes I have my moments where I'm like, "Oh dear God, I'm actually going to be his wife!!! I'm not going to just be his girlfriend anymore. YIKES!!!" Weird feelings, ya know?

    #13 A10CalGal

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      Posted 28 March 2008 - 10:44 PM

      Totally normal! All part of the fun roller coaster ride. It's pretty much out of your hands at this point. You get to sit back & watch all of your careful and meticulous planning come together. It's fricking insane though, right? How did it get here so fast? Do I really want to get married? What if I suck at marriage? What if I trip going down the aisle? What if nobody shows up? WHat if....you get the idea. It's all normal. Just absorb it as part of the marriage experience.

      #14 Heidi

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        Posted 28 March 2008 - 10:51 PM

        YES!!!

        ...at least I sure hope so!!!
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        #15 JulieG

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          Posted 28 March 2008 - 10:55 PM

          I think its totally normal. I went through the same thing. I could not wait to leave, but at the same time I could not believe it was happening and felt I was not ready and I was scared and did I really want to do it and was life going to chance drastically after, etc... That is what they call cold feet :)

          #16 NYJen

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            Posted 28 March 2008 - 10:57 PM

            Quote:
            Originally Posted by Heidi
            YES!!!

            ...at least I sure hope so!!!
            Heidi, you must be going through the same thing right now. CRAZY!!!! How are you doing?

            Last night I couldn't sleep, I was just soooo excited.

            #17 Heidi

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              Posted 28 March 2008 - 11:00 PM

              Quote:
              Originally Posted by NYJen
              Heidi, you must be going through the same thing right now. CRAZY!!!! How are you doing?

              Last night I couldn't sleep, I was just soooo excited.
              Everytime I run wedding errands, I get home and remember 3 other things I needed to get... I have about 8 different lists... still have to make my centerpieces... I'm feeling a little stressed and slightly overwhelmed! I'm SOOOOOO glad I have NO WORK for a week and a half! WOOT!

              Also, I decided to do some BD pics, so just grabbing some lingerie, etc that I already have cause I have NO TIME to get new stuff! (good thing I got a few things as gifts during my shower!) We're doing the BD pics the night before the wedding... should be fun! (just a few though; not a whole long session!)
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              #18 BarefootBride

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                Posted 28 March 2008 - 11:02 PM

                Im glad this is normal girls!

                Im excited and nervous too! This is serious! Im in this forever... (nail biting)

                9 Days!!! I cant even imagine!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

                #19 NYJen

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                  Posted 28 March 2008 - 11:04 PM

                  Quote:
                  Originally Posted by Heidi
                  Everytime I run wedding errands, I get home and remember 3 other things I needed to get... I have about 8 different lists... still have to make my centerpieces... I'm feeling a little stressed and slightly overwhelmed! I'm SOOOOOO glad I have NO WORK for a week and a half! WOOT!

                  Also, I decided to do some BD pics, so just grabbing some lingerie, etc that I already have cause I have NO TIME to get new stuff! (good thing I got a few things as gifts during my shower!) We're doing the BD pics the night before the wedding... should be fun! (just a few though; not a whole long session!)
                  OH WOW, I'm so glad you decided to do the BD pics. It's so much fun and so cool to do. You better hurry up back and post pics!!! Oh wait, I'm still going to be away when you post everything. I have a strange feeling I'm going to spend half of my honeymoon in the Business Center at the Hilton, hanging out on BDW. LOL!!!

                  #20 MsShelley

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                    Posted 29 March 2008 - 10:02 AM

                    omg, Jen I can't believe it is almost here!




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