Jump to content
Sign in to follow this  
boscobel

feeling oddly prepared and it's stressing me out

Recommended Posts

Make sense? My wedding is in less then 2 months and I feel like I have done everything I needed to do. Well, my sis and I are still working on the flowergirl dresses and the OOT bags, but other then that, I feel like I don't have anything to do. It's kinda weirding me out, cuz I feel like I am forgetting stuff, but I've checked over my lists and everything appears to be in order? Now, how to tell my nerves that...

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I completely understand. I really don't have very many big things left to do. I alternate between being perfectly fine and relaxed freaking out!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I feel ya. I pretty much have the majors done. The one thing I'm worried about is putting together the DJ list. There is such a range in ages coming I have no idea how to prepare for them all. I'm sure the DJ will know (I hope).

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Wow! Well comgratulations ladies!! That is pehnomenal! Maybe go over the list with someone else to get another opinon to make sure you didnt miss anything to help calm yourself.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Thanks Kelly, cuz the song lists are something else that we have yet to complete. It's supposed to be Matt's job, cuz I am a hip hop girl and he doesn't want hip hop at our wedding, so I've left it to him. Gonna have to get on him with that...

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I'm feeling the same way. I'm so calm & just doing little projects here & there. I felt like I couldve gotten married 6 months ago.

 

Occasionally I do panic that I will forget to do the legal ceremony in NC before we leave. How terrible would that be? Spend all this time thinking about hair flowers & then forget to get married.

 

I told mike yesterday he is in charge of marriage day. He is in charge of making sure we remember to get married legally, finding out what we need to do & planning whatever he wants to make that day special. I know what his plans will include because he looked really happy to be incharge. I'm excited about marriage day because it will be just about the two of us. It's fun to have both. The private celebration of our marriage & the one with family & friends.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

That does sound fun Morgan. But what a story you would have to pass along to your younger generations about how gradma and grandpa forgot to get married! Hahahaaa

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
Quote:
Originally Posted by carly View Post
That does sound fun Morgan. But what a story you would have to pass along to your younger generations about how gradma and grandpa forgot to get married! Hahahaaa
...and that's the tale of how maw & paw forgot to get hitched. But, that didn't stop us from having a honeymoon :)

I'm not making a big deal about the NC marriage because to me the wedding in mexico it the real wedding. NC is just paperwork. I think that's why I kept forgetting we needed to do it. But, we still want to make it fun. Our parents know, but we aren't making it very public. So it's kind of fun. Our own secret day. I bought a cute white lace dress. We started talking about when to go do it & I got tears in my eyes. It's really starting to hit me how quickly the wedding is coming up. I haven't decided if I'll put marriage day pictures in my photobook. I'll definitly post some on here. Maybe I can put them in as the day we went to the courthouse. I mean, all couples have to do that before their wedding.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I say take a day off and have a spa day (if its in the budget) or do something to relax your mind. Think of it as a way to say Awesome job for getting everything done in advance! :~)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
Sign in to follow this  


  • Best Destination Wedding Sponsors



    Facebook Pinterest Google+ Twitter
  • Posts

    • Another option is to find an app that allows for group talk. This Wedding Party App looks pretty neat. https://apracticalwedding.com/wedding-party-app/ 
    • Hi Everyone, So, I was cleaning out my closet and realized that I never sold off my extra wedding OOT bag stuff from our wonderful DW.   46 Daily Spanish for Dummies 30 Pool colored OOT fabric bags - approximately 13in x 13in. They lay flat.  I used them for our wedding and they were perfect for everything we needed to fit in each bag. There’s a slight shade variation in the group; I’m guessing some were cut from a different bolt of fabric.  They are also a little wrinkled from storage and will probably be wrinkled from shipping. I have three additional ones, but they somehow got something on them (likely toddler related). If needed, I can try to wash it out and send those as well. 
    • I’m getting married in six months to my foreign girlfriend. I was advised by a friend that one of the things I need to do before saying I do is to get a prenuptial agreement. Basically it’s supposed to protect my assets and properties in case my relationship with my future wife goes down the drain. I don’t know though if this is an acceptable practice when marrying Kiev ladies. I don’t want to do it if it would be insulting on her end. I need advice on this. Please help me.
    • So we are currently looking for an all inclusive resort for the wedding. We have 60 guests and found all the Dreams resorts as options and all of them gave us a quote and discounted price since it’s off season etc. Resorts in Punta Canta gave us a reasonable price, Dominicus gave us a really good deal then La Romana Resort and Spa gave us their regular price and so hard to negotiate. Will someone tell us how special is this resort that they won’t give us a good discount when all my guests are staying in their resort for 5-8 days. We are bringing $$$ in their resort and not give us a discount?  What is so special with this resort?  Can somebody recommend a beautiful resort? 
    • Hello Everyone, Share your favorite wedding venues. And also give me a Solution. I choose Wedding Venues in mobile al the Anne-marie cottage.
  • Topics

×