I let go of my wedding party...
Posted 13 March 2008 - 04:59 PM
I'm sure it will all work out and you'll be able to look back on this wedding with nothing but good memories!
I haven't booked my wedding yet, but maybe I will wait until after they decide to come to ask them to be in it ... so they won't feel obligated. I would rather only have two on my side, but the fiance wants his whole crew of 5! oh boy .... I see stress ahead of me
Posted 13 March 2008 - 05:37 PM
Good photogs will be able to work with it and make it happen
Posted 17 March 2008 - 11:51 AM
| Originally Posted by Morgan |
I decided not to have a wedding party just to avoid any potential stress. I'm so glad I did. It's so much easier to only have to worry about yourself.
Posted 22 March 2008 - 01:32 PM
Don't worry, it'll all be fine and you're not alone!!!
Posted 22 March 2008 - 02:10 PM
Posted 22 March 2008 - 02:13 PM
Posted 22 March 2008 - 02:32 PM
It's actually one of the things I'm afraid of. We were planning a local wedding when I lost my job and then decided to do a destination wedding (what we have saved already can cover it). We had already asked our bridal party (7 girls 7 guys). So when we told them we changed plans, we told them all the same thing "we still want you to be in it if you can, but if you can't afford to be in it and come, we would rather you be there. If you can't afford to be in it or to come, we 100% understand"
So far everyone says they're coming (2 guys are iffy)...we'll see who actually buys a dress and books when it comes down to it...
150 INVITES / 6 YES / 13 NO
Posted 22 March 2008 - 02:37 PM
We're waiting to see who RSVPs before we even begin to ask people, but I'm not sure that going this route is going to eliminate any of the crap. We'll see
Posted 22 March 2008 - 04:49 PM
I'm having no BM or GM and if I had my way it would be just me and the FI! lol but he wants to invite his friends and the dreaded FMIL with her new hubby(long story!!) lol
So in a nutshell I'm dreading it because as soon as she finds out she is going to start bitching about wanting this and that and I, unfortunately, have no tact lmao and will tell her to lmao
So I know how you feel and I'm proud of you for ditching the party, we are having a small reception but only cause that is already in the package then i'm going jet skiing and they can do what they want lmao
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