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#1 Sandra E.

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    Posted 09 March 2008 - 06:40 PM

    Ok girls, I need to get your opinion because my fianc© doesn't seem to get it.

    So he's been married before. No big deal, you know the story. She got pregnant and he married her. It didn't worked out and obviously they still need to have contact with one another due to his son.

    Well she's crazy and she's a bit psycho. So, it's been a long time since she has done things like this, but anyway here it is. Every once in a while she used to send him an email or a picture that she wanted him to see and will call him..."ooops I meant to send it to someone else and I sent it to you by accident, so ignore it."

    So this afternoon we're at the Arboretum and his phone rings, and it's her. "ooops I was trying to upload my picture for my business card but I accidently sent it to you, so ignore it."

    Of course Mark says yea whatever. So we get home and this is what's on his email. A seductive picture that she took of herself from her iPhone and email it from there. This girl is crazy!!!!!! What in the world??

    Forgot to mention. She's remarried and has a 2 month all baby with her new husband.

    #2 LadyP

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      Posted 09 March 2008 - 06:47 PM

      we can go story for story. I have got some for you gurl. that is nothing and it is not going to change, it will most likely get worse before it gets better. He has to put her in check it is nothing that you can do. You haVE TO MAKE him understand that the drama has MUST stop and he has to do it

      #3 lscilley

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        Posted 09 March 2008 - 06:49 PM

        Wow she a nutto! I don't know what I would do since they have their son. But I would feel the exact same way you do. I hope she grows up and your situation gets better.

        #4 Martha

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          Posted 09 March 2008 - 06:57 PM

          Who would take a picture of themselves for a business card using a camera phone. As if.

          Sounds like she needs to get a grip....

          But, you may want to delete her picture off of here...never know who might see it. KWIM?

          #5 trisha0612

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            Posted 09 March 2008 - 07:19 PM

            Although I kind of agree with Betsey that people might see it but on the other hand I want to say F@*$ her...let the world see how pathetic she is!!!!!
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            #6 tlomlad

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              Posted 09 March 2008 - 07:53 PM

              wow shes a little of her rocker first off this is very disrespectful to you and second it might even be more disrespectful to her new husband and their child a few years back i would have said send the pic to her new husband but now i just belive in karma and God to get me throught the tought times dont stress and let it worry you if it gets to be a real problem then put it in the hands of the law!

              #7 JennyK

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                Posted 09 March 2008 - 08:01 PM

                She's obviously trying to mess with his life. Who takes a pic like that for their business card? LOL That was definitely a bad excuse! We all have the evil ex in our lives.. it's whether he acknowledges how evil it is and nips it right in the butt

                #8 KarmaB

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                  Posted 09 March 2008 - 08:05 PM

                  Wow, she really needs a life. I wonder how her new husband would feel about this.

                  I totally agree with LadyP. He needs to be the one to put his foot down and put up some boundaries.

                  There was really NO need for her to call today, she could have sent a second email saying that it was not meant for him. Your FI needs to tell her to ONLY call if it involves his son and thats it.

                  Steve had some issues with his ex when their divorce was a little more fresh, but he put his foot down and she no longer calls on his cell phone unless its an emergency and only calls him at work if it's about their son.

                  I hope she gets a life and starts respecting you and him soon.

                  #9 CourtneyV

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                    Posted 09 March 2008 - 08:19 PM

                    Haha, oh my... what a sad excuse. Really, who uses a camera phone for their business card?!!

                    She sounds like she's really annoying to put up with, but as long as you trust your FI, there's nothing to worry about. Even if your FI talked to her, she seems like the type to play dumb and continue the defense that it was another accident. There really isn't a point to turning this into a big dramatic fight, just to confront her on her transparent scheme. She's not worth your time and energy. I think you and FI need to do your best to ignore her lame emails and move on with your happy life! :)

                    Oh ya... and I'd have to agree, you probably want to delete her pic from the thread... just in case!
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                    #10 LadyP

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                      Posted 09 March 2008 - 08:28 PM

                      why delete here picture. MaYBE someone she knows will see her and read it and tell her how STUPID she is. Dont delete it you are entitled to how you feel

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