Venting Bm & Dress
Posted 06 March 2008 - 09:47 PM
Posted 07 March 2008 - 02:36 AM
Posted 07 March 2008 - 05:53 AM
Posted 07 March 2008 - 02:28 PM
| Originally Posted by kendra |
I have two bridesmaid, I selected the color and they are fine with color.
This is the issue:
BM1:is in a wedding coming up, that bride and I selected the same color
BM 1 said she will wear the dress to my wedding, not a problem for me
Well BM1 ,think the dress will be to hot for my wedding because of the fabric which is silk shantung and she sweats. I never told her to wear that dress for my wedding.
BM2: BM2 told BM1 that silk shantung dress is too fancy for a beach wedding and she sweats also and will be hot. I came across on dress on Macys
that is perfect for a beach wedding and the perfect color, BM1 said the dress is to clingy for her. Have not heard from BM2 about the dress at Macys.
I am so tried of going back and forth with me, these are 2 chics who have wonderful taste in fashion, I never thought this would be this hard. I picked the color and told them to get a dress that they like and comfortable for the wedding. I emailed both bm today and told them to get a white sun dress, that they like and is comfortable for a beach wedding. My dress is ivory so a white dress for them is not a issue with me.
Was that the best solution to give them?
All you can do is arbitrarily pick a dress FOR them and tell them thats that, or let them figure it out on their own keeping in mind the time contstraint. Give them suggestions....let them know what you think, but tell them that they have to come up with something and fast. I gave my girls two choices and that was that. I didn't want thing to drag on down to the wire when they could have been done paying for dresses and that part of the wedding off my mind. I know with the group I have, we would have problems getting EVERYone to agree, so I'm not giving them that much room to DISagree. I want them to be happy with it, so all I can do is a majority rules type of thing. I found a dress for them that I love, and 3 out of 4 of them like as well, so thats it. Sorry, can't please everyone everytime. You hate to do that when they are already forking out money to come to your wedding and participate, but I think they understand pretty much.
Just let them know that its driving you nuts. They are your friends and will take pity on you and come up with something they agree on. Hang tough.
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Posted 08 March 2008 - 05:25 AM
Posted 08 March 2008 - 01:23 PM
I hope you sort it out with your bridesmaids as you don't need the hassle.
Posted 08 March 2008 - 01:45 PM
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